This is serious!

[Nisha25]

Re: This is serious!

@rizla86

Fair enough, the guy should talk to her and make his concerns known. If she comes around and wants to work on the marriage and her faults, good. If she doesn’t, divorce her.

I don’t think the OP talked about depression, I think you and RV did which to be honest sounded like a sad excuse on part of the wife here.

again i was giving antidepressants/medications as an example of something that would cause very low libido or sex drive to the point of having problems in the bedroom. I and RV did not suggest she has depression. the presence of illnesses was mentioned.

:hinna: i wish you would read my comment carefully, and i think i had missed it before but there are kids involved in this, 3, doesn’t it make the couple want to make the marriage work even more.

this is the sister of the husband, if the husband had actually come then we would get first hand info on the exact problem even if we aren’t getting both sides.