This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

My husband gives me my NFL uninterupted August-January, I let him have his stupid getting up at 3 am to watch cricket…it’s a win-win situation :hehe:

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

LOL…that’s a nice trade-off since both of you happen to be major sports fans (although different sports). :slight_smile:

See something like this would never work for me since I’m not a sports fan in general (although I do love watching the Cowboy’s cheerleaders…lol). Losing hubby to football ever single Sunday for 6 months just sound depressing to me. :bummer:

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

In response to stoppit and puchi kuchi.

In our first few text messages exchanges - i asked him 'so what do you do for work? do you enjoy it? ' and his reply via text was ' so you gonna take my interview like your dad' and then I told him i was watching an arabic film or something later on and he said ' yalllah so this is what med school has done to you? i have 0 recommendations for that rubbish ' :/

hence i thought oh hes really jokey AND can take a joke - well I guess not ......or he just doesn't get it?

I said to him oh sorry british people are really ironic and asked him to bear with me so lets see what happens.

Yes the working from 8-10pm and the watching foortball from 11 am to 12 pm on sunday and the fantasy football sounds a little hardcore.

We share the common interest of really wanting to travel and eating out etc though.

Lets see what happens.

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

Sounds like a guy who gets easily flared up/anger management issues.

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

wow. i believe you have discovered another half. mithai pleej.

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

Uhmmm are you more worried about the football/soccer confusion or that he plays online 12 yhours a day?

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

^ no sara thats why i put ' :p' at the end of the sentance

and its ironic my sarcasm was mistunderstood lol

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

Wait....so he himself still has not told you what he does for a living? You should've told him that unless he's looking to marry your dad....he better be willing to let you "interview" him. :p

Does his job actually require him to work those crazy hours OR is he a workaholic by choice? Also, you may want to find out how many weeks of vacation he gets.

Has he actually travelled to various places? Is he even willing to travel during football season?

LOL.....I know it sounds petty........but based on the impression I'm getting so far......if he continues to keep up with his work hours after marriage, and is a very hardcore football fan.....you won't be seeing much of him (let's not even get into trying to schedule vacations with his work schedule/NFL devotion!).

Keep us updated & good luck! :)

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

All GS girls giving advise to inspiron… gaya bechara kam sai

:chai:

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

I get the impression he is a workaholic because he called from the office - 9pm his time and I asked him if he had loads to do and he said hes here because he has nothing to do at home...........?

He said hes gonna ease up in the next two years and move into consultancy. Whether this will happen or not need to work out more.

And he told my dad everything about work but as a mentioned above he didnt really tell me.

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

Is he finance or IT? If yes then very possible. Also he is single, so cut him some slack. One should be happy that he is spending time at work instead of wasting out on streets.

Also, he is probably assuming that your dad has told you everything about him. No one like direct interview unless its for job or by girl's father as there are no ways out of both situations. So go slow....

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

1) he is not very friendly and neither have many friends.

2) Yeh like in next two years i will be CEO.

3) ask him for maiden name/dob/ssn and run a background check, voila :)

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

double triple like

inspiron, im assuming this is for marriage purposes, so if things work out, you will move to the US?

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

What you have empty apartment to rent out?

:chai:

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

Too different. Next!!!

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

lulz. you never know :smiley:

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

:fatee: iss murghay ko hath say mat janay dena. $^$

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

yes of course i will move. he has a very good job in a very good company. yup hes in finance.

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

^And he's got a capital sense of humor, too.

Blimey! I think I just made a sarcastic/British-type funny.

Re: This is really really silly but talk some sense into me ( rishta scenario)

i just want to let you know that in America there is no guarantee of job. so if you are looking at his job it mayt be superficial. you have to concentrate on his education. in this economy, anything could happen with anyone. :chai: