ll u mind if ur wife ll have some male friends ???
if u do why ???
if u dunnn y not???
well for those who ll say “YES” … dont u have female friends ??? if yes y ll u mind if ur wife ll have some …???
i don't.... If I have female friends then why would I have any right to object on her male friends!
No problem if they are mutual friends, male or female. Means that I know her friends and she know my friends.
The concern arises when I have a friend about whom my wife is un-aware and vice-versa
Doesn't bother me at all... as long as the guys she hangs out with are not complete idiots lol
Is it true most girls are hesitant to trust a guy who has close female friends? And if so how in the world do you reassure her there is nothing to worry about?
I know if there was someone in my life all she'd have to do is get to know my close friends herself to find out just how much she really meant to me... most of my female friends are also my most trusted advisors lol
so if the husband wrongs, the wife shud too????
Guys, I am sure u will change ur opinion, when u'll step in a serious relationship or proly after getting married. This will be the huge issue which wud hit u like a brick and might cause a break up. Guys say a lot of things and so do girls, specially when they are friends with a girl/boy but as as soon as the friendship changes into a relationship, the opinon is bound to change.
think it does bother me should that situation arise.
and somehow she doesnt seem to mind my female friends, inspite of my making it clear that i wouldnt be able to live with the inverted scenario.
guess shes more grounded and less insecure.
well said :k:
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*Originally posted by armughal: *
so if the husband wrongs, the wife shud too????
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umm, yes?
Well i for one have female friends and they will mostlikely be my friends even after marriage. I have female friends who are married and i get along with their husbands and they have no problem with me hanging out with their wives. Though that might be because i knew the couples when they were dating and stuff.
But regardless of that fact i will not give up my friends male or female just because my future wife feels uncomfortable. I have known a majority of these women for over 5 years etc etc. My wife will not affect any decision with regard to my relationship with them.
If my wife has male friends so what? Its not a crime and she would be married to me after all. She had a life before me and she will have a seperate life even with me. I wont dictate to her.
If she dictates to me she can take the boot. Me and my friends are extremely close and honestly as she is coming in after these friends she is secondary.
no need for her to have guy friends..MAIN HOON NA 
Everyone has opposide gender friends. We are in colleges/universities . Every male has female friends and every female has male friends. I'll talk about me here. I have A LOT OF female friends, way more than my male friends. I am sure my "honey wali biwi" also has male friends as well. I don't mind because look at me! But after we get married, I'll stop (or reduce) talking to my female friends and give all my attention/love to my wife and I would want the same from her.
I am not gonna claim that yes she can have male friends after she get married because I know this is not true. EVERY GUY will mind and most guys will still have their female friends after they get married. That's also wrong. If they expect their wives to stop having male friends after they get married, they should do the same, that is to stop having too many female friends. Yes if you have colleagues, that's fine, but unnecessary friends, no.
If my wife had a male friend and now he's married and he's willing to meet US with his wife, that's fine. Or if I have a female friend and she's married and she wants to come to our home with her husband to meet us, that's fine also.
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i don't.... If I have female friends then why would I have any right to object on her male friends!
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yehi tou baat hai samajhney k liyey :)
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*Originally posted by pagaldeewani: *
Guys, I am sure u will change ur opinion, when u'll step in a serious relationship or proly after getting married. This will be the huge issue which wud hit u like a brick and might cause a break up. Guys say a lot of things and so do girls, specially when they are friends with a girl/boy but as as soon as the friendship changes into a relationship, the opinon is bound to change.
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yaa 100% agreed this is the basic thing ........ guys used to say this k they ll not have any prob with it but after the time comes their opinion wil change .
guys dont have any prob if they have some female friends even after marrige but if their wife have any even if he is just a simple friend he ll creat a prob ....
:k: :k: ----->for u, on ur honest opinion 
I waz thinkin of something similiar....who is more important boyfriend/girlfriend or bestfriend(male/female)? why?
Well two things really:
Both husband and wife should communicate and talk about their friends and meet them and share personal secrets and opinions about them.
Both husband and wife should understand that there will be jealousy and that they should find the balance and prevent such feelings from appearing.
Re: this is question is specially from guys …
Let me ask you a question, first.
I can have four wives at the same time, can my wife have four husbands at the same time?
come on girls accept it. Girls and Guys can never be the same.
forget about who is superior and who is inferior, but they are not the same. So stop comparing them.
aaj kal ki laRkiyaN.
Both of them will have their own lives and friends before they meet.
However personally I would want to get to know all his friends, and I would want him to get to know all my friends.Since marriage is all about compromise.
Anyway if he wants to be friends with her on a one on one basis- and not include me in it- I will mind.Ofcourse I will know some of my friends longer than my future hubby- however he's still going to come first.I have to live my life with him- not my friends.
Re: Re: this is question is specially from guys …
it is not the matter of comparison or infriority or superiority … it is the matter of passive thinking of man 
aaj kul k larkey 
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