This is my relationship with my in laws, is this normal?

[Sara516]

Re: This is my relationship with my in laws, is this normal?

@Sehrysh

^ Priceless! You lie to your own family, you don’t know what or how you should behave with your future in-laws, you seem to be clueless about basic daughterly loyalties you owe your parents, yet you’re quick to get upset with someone who’s showing you a mirror for your actions I wonder how your mom would react to your actions?

Probably give her props.

@crazyfool

@redvelvet : Does it hurt to be polite, or you dont know how to talk?

Does it hurt to have common sense? because she’s given you plenty of good advice, as have most people…if you’re too immature to understand it, that’s nobody’s fault but your own.

@redvelvet

What I meant is that you’re not married yet…you’re still living with your parents…under their roof. So, they have the right to know when you undertake decisions which CAN affect them. Hypothetically speaking…what if something were to go wrong on your visits or because of your visits to your fiance’s home…and your parents have no idea about it…no idea where you’re going…etc. Have you thought about that possibility?

How much more specific do you want someone to be? Why do you expect a stranger to lay out every single thing that can happen?