Re: This is my relationship with my in laws, is this normal?
FIRST…talk to your mom and work out some possibilities together. Then tell your MIL. Again, your mom and you might decide that you’ll visit a couple times a week (maybe drop of some food…like something the little girl will like eating)…and the rest of the days you can CALL. Or you and your mom might even be able to have the girl stay with you a few days. But unless you don’t talk to your mom about it…you’re going to continue feeling frustrated…whereas she can help you manage the situation. And since you’re not married yet…she especially has the right to now…because actions taken during this time could potentially affect her (your mom/family as well). Let her know…she may get upset at first…but you’re her daugther and she’ll work out a way to help you out if YOU EMPHASIZE to your mom that you’d like to help your MIL out.
So this decision of mine to keep this away from my mother,… is it going to show a bad picture of my mom in front of my mother in law?? im sorry i didnt fet this part.. about “potentially affecting her”