This is my relationship with my in laws, is this normal?

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Re: This is my relationship with my in laws, is this normal?

@crazyfool

Thanks alot for understanding the issue.

You might all freak out but i havent told my mother that my MIL is out of country.. if i did my mother wouldnt let me go to their house AT ALL. hence i kept it to myself, but now im not able to manage it. my mother in law didnt impose it on me, she kindly asked me to do whats possible. but i’ve become like a family member which i really love and i dont want my place gone? its a weird insecurity cause his brothers girlfriend comes alot.
but my MIL didnt trust her with it, she trusted me. im not really old so this responsibity seems really heavy on my shoulders.
im afraid of disappointing my in laws while keeping my parents happy and in the end i feel burdened by their gifts.. so this i feel would pay offf.. although there isnt any pay off in families but im not blood.

Note: i know my thoughts are very scattered. thats why im writing it all here. lol trying to take it off my mind cause i can barely sleep!

Your mother doesn’t know that your MIL to be is not in the country!!!
You must have been born and bred in Britain.