How do the girls on this thread with evil husbands and/or evil inlaws that treat them like utter crap keep having intimate relations with their husbands?
Sorry - I know it is a personal question but it always bewilders me! These girls are so utterly mistreated by their husbands often to the point of contemplating suicide but see no qualms about continuing to sleep with their husbands hence the reason most of them are either pregnant or have a few kids (very close in age). They keep bringing kids into unhealthy relationships…it isn’t good for the kids either (but thats a whole other topic).
Am I the the only one that thinks this is utterly strange?
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you have a point. One of my khala's has chosen to stay in an aggressive relationship. Everytime they have a huge fight (eg nose bleeds, bruises etc), she ends up pregnant the next month.
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How do the girls on this thread with evil husbands and/or evil inlaws that treat them like utter crap keep having intimate relations with their husbands?
Sorry - I know it is a personal question but it always bewilders me! These girls are so utterly mistreated by their husbands often to the point of contemplating suicide but see no qualms about continuing to sleep with their husbands hence the reason most of them are either pregnant or have a few kids (very close in age). They keep bringing kids into unhealthy relationships....it isn't good for the kids either (but thats a whole other topic).
Am I the the only one that thinks this is utterly strange?
I don't think that having "evil inlaws" (not evil husband) should stop you from having sex with your husband. If the husband is evil then she should not be a in a relationship with him sexual or otherwise.
From time to time people go through rough patch in their relationship however that does not mean that the relationship has irretrievably broken down and they need to stop having sex. Having sex means that they are both still committed to make the relationship work. If the relationship had completely broken down then they would not usually be living together.
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exactly I never understand that how can a person fight with his wife or girlfriend what ever and argue and stuff and come night time , they are u know ... thats not possible ..
unless you are not human just a janwar ...
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:hinna:
No…I’m also often surprised by this. We’re not talking about the occasional disagreements most couples experience. Some of these threads talk about the wife being miserable for YEARS! Or situations where there is constant tension/stress/arguments with their spouse. The wives go on and on about how their husband’s don’t support them emotionally, they don’t feel respected/loved, they resent their spouse b/c they made so many compromises etc. etc. etc.
I don’t understand how a person can choose to become intimate with their spouse if they’re so unhappy. Actually…what amazes me even more are the women who WANT to have children with their husband even after complaining about how they’re being treated badly!
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make up sex.
also, it's not entirely impossible or unheard of for someone to seperate the emotional needs from physical ones. I.e., take emotion out of sex.
I'm not talking about couples that have an otherwise healthy relationship and then have an occasional fight here and there. I'm talking about the girls who claim to have husbands that constantly have treated them like garbage for years on end.
I dunno....personally if I was married to a scum bag like that....I would CRINGE if he even tried to hold my hand. I guess some people are really good at separating the two.
I've found it very strange as well!! And how they mistakenly or on purpose end up pregnant, in the same homes as the evil inlaws/husbands that give em no space. I don't quite understand it. Is it a cultural thing about marriage, even if its a brutal hell that there is no way out and therefore might as well bring children into the works to get your mind off??? Or they have no choice but to let their husbands have their way at night?! Or what ?
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How do the girls on this thread with evil husbands and/or evil inlaws that treat them like utter crap keep having intimate relations with their husbands?
Sorry - I know it is a personal question but it always bewilders me! These girls are so utterly mistreated by their husbands often to the point of contemplating suicide but see no qualms about continuing to sleep with their husbands hence the reason most of them are either pregnant or have a few kids (very close in age). They keep bringing kids into unhealthy relationships....it isn't good for the kids either (but thats a whole other topic).
Am I the the only one that thinks this is utterly strange?
I have terrible inlaws but my hubby always supports me. However, when hubby and I argue, physical intimacy is a way for me to know that things are OK now. I know if either one of us is still mad at the other, we don't even like to hold hands.
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No one has mentioned this but if the husband is really so evil as to be abusive, then it could be sexual abuse whether or not the wife tells anyone or not.
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What does op stand for?
I have issues with my inlaws and sometimes hubby too but I know it without any doubt that he loves me so yeah that pretty much sums it up.
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What does op stand for?
I have issues with my inlaws and sometimes hubby too but I know it without any doubt that he loves me so yeah that pretty much sums it up.
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I am 100% sure OP and all other who are against this thought are yet single.
Nope, my ex husband was plain nasty and had evil intentions so I got rid ASAP!! no if's no but's the doors that way!! I sure as hell wasn't gonna wait until he hit me.
