Re: This bewilders me about girls with evil husbands
Single or emancipated as I sometimes think of it :)
Intimacy is important for a healthy marriage...a healthy marriage consists of two people. If one person is able to enjoy intimacy but the other doesn't...how is that healthy? How is that any fun?
Yes, I know a lot of people will scoff at me and say "lady, marriage ain't no fun!"
But then my question is...why not?
Re: This bewilders me about girls with evil husbands
When I was single believe me or not. I had the exact thought. “How can husband and wife have sex after getting into huge arguments. Sometimes worst case scenario after physical abuse too”
My entire thought changed after second year of marriage. Believe me or not if couple are willing to last marriage and stay together. Sex helps 70% to overcome dispute. 20% is all the respect, care, understanding and promises not to repeat whoever was at fault. Whenever I have a fight with my husband. Just to normalize atmosphere, I try to have sex that night. “ This mean we are okay and not interested to continue fight for days”
Reha: Well there are millions of people around who don't enjoy sex the way they show up on those porn movies, Guys trust me what you all see on all the movies are just horrible acts. Intimacy is important for a healthy marriage and husband enjoy way more than women.
Re: This bewilders me about girls with evil husbands
Reha: Well there are millions of people around who don't enjoy sex the way they show up on those porn movies, Guys trust me what you all see on all the movies are just horrible acts. Intimacy is important for a healthy marriage and husband enjoy way more than women.
I am not referring to porn...ew. I am referring to intimacy...why do men enjoy it more than women do? I am so curious about this actually now...why do women look at it as a way to just normalize the atmosphere? Are they not human? Should this not be something they need and want as well?