Not sure if Imam Magid came up with this but I have shared this with you all in the spirit of helping others. If you think it is a bad joke, you don’t have to follow the advice of finding out you share any values with the man or woman you tie the knot with.
What about getting to know yourself? You can’t imagine how many people hardly know what they stand for therefore they fall for everything. They go whereever the wind blows.