Things to Ask Before Getting Engaged

[Umer]

Re: Things to Ask Before Getting Engaged

@Peony

Are you serious that you would use this guide as a questionaire? I would think that someone such as yourself " The Pakistani Brain of Austria" would at least know that you weave these questions into conversations. That you cannot prevent someone from lying but honestly some of these questions are about values and lifestyles with no right or wrong answers.

I think the point here is that people have trouble figuring out how to navigate in their rishta process. There is never a guarantee about a successful & happy marriage but taking steps to avoid a mismatch of values is a good idea.

No need to get personal. And again I agree with you that taking steps to avoid a mismatch of values is a good idea. I just don’t think a 100 question questionnaire is an appropriate step, even if you weave these questions into conversations.

There is no One Size fits all solution. People just need to use more common sense. That would solve a lot of these troubles.