Personally, I feel your points are rather trivial and foolish. For example if she doesn't want to look after the husbands parents then who she shouldn't expect anyone to look after her own. The wife shouldn't expect too much in return as she isn't willing to do her bit. It seems she doesn't want to do anything, lol.
-Quit work/career. There are many reasons why I want to work. It’s almost a necessity to me.
-Different (moral) standards for him and me. Can’t keep male friends? I actually will do that for you, but only if you do the same for me. And similar things.
-Treating our male and female children unfairly. Allowing boys more leeway than girls. Neither will I do it nor will I ever be ok with him doing it. And thankfully it’s not happening so much in the newer generations.