Things that Husband SHOULD NOT EXPECT

[Reha]

Re: Things that Husband SHOULD NOT EXPECT

@Wane

Reha, issue is not what this couple does or whether helping with the kids reduces a man to a lesser being. The issue is the unrealistic media-fed expectations that women have of marriage & men these days; and the rejoicing & pats on the back, whenever a man conforming to these new ideals is located. And just for reference purposes: I am talking about decent God-fearing men here, who are good spouses and don’t treat their wives badly at all.

@Wane

^ Wow. Why are you so aggressive? I don’t know where I said that raising child is an ideal or spending time with your spouse is an ideal. I am amazed at the sheer volume of words & claims that you have put into my mouth here. Seriously.

Im not trying to be aggressive. Im looking for clarification as to what new ideals you’re talking about. What exactly is the unreasonable expectation here? If you speak of God fearing men, then we all know what Allah swt has mandated for both man and woman when it comes to their families. The priority has always been your family. Im not sure what I have referenced that can be considered “new” or non-conventional.