Things that Husband SHOULD NOT EXPECT

[Reha]

Re: Things that Husband SHOULD NOT EXPECT

@Wane

Reha, issue is not what this couple does or whether helping with the kids reduces a man to a lesser being. The issue is the unrealistic media-fed expectations that women have of marriage & men these days; and the rejoicing & pats on the back, whenever a man conforming to these new ideals is located. And just for reference purposes: I am talking about decent God-fearing men here, who are good spouses and don’t treat their wives badly at all

What new ideals? Helping a woman raise THEIR child is a new ideal now? How? You tell me when and where these ideals became new because Im lost now. Since when did spending quality time with your spouse become a new fad? Or being involved in their kids’ lives? Or taking your wife out for a date? This is all new?

A man who is good to his family IS afraid of God. You know why? Because the first responsibility he has as a man is his family.

Him spending time with his kids is an unrealistic expectation? If I am looking for an absent father, Ill go to a sperm bank. You need to clarify what part of the examples that I gave is unrealistic and new because I honestly do not see it. Because if the expectations in their marriage are unrealistic…then men need to stop opening their mouths period in the rishta process and take whoever it is they get.

What kind of world are we living in now? Men are now afraid of being men? Why?