Reha
February 8, 2011, 3:36am
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Re: Things that Husband SHOULD NOT EXPECT
Spending considerable time away from each other helps look at the positive side of each other more easily. It is easier for both partners to overlook each others shortcomings when they are not constantly living with each other. It is easier to be compromising when you do not have to be compromising every hour, everyday. It is easier to find love, when you lose it from time to time.
However, in the long run it will be damaging because learning from living together will not be there. When they will start living together, both will yearn for the time when they used to part regularly. Best time to get adjusted are the initial days of the marriage. By losing that opportunity, this may not necessarily lead to similarly rosy picture later in life.
They’ve been married for 9 years and he just started traveling 1.5 years ago. He travels 4 days a week and is home from Thursday through Sunday. I think they’ve had enough time to adjust.