Re: Things that Husband SHOULD NOT EXPECT
No.
I listed what matters to me. I’m totally ok with taking care of parents. I expect to do the same for my parents later in life, so why not?
Although, yes, I would prefer a separate household early on because it’s important to bond and become a team in the ‘first years’ of marriage. Struggling and standing on your own feet is a part of that. As is some privacy.