A lot of women are getting sitting on the shelf and getting old complaining they can’t find a suitable husband.
On further questioning when they specify what they want they all want is tall dark handsome doctor or dentist or millionaire thinking they will lead a life of luxury.
As there is a limited supply of these it seems they have become very fussy and therefore will be left on the shelf.
Also the doctor,dentist or millionaire may not want to marry THEM.
Also these doctors,dentists,millionaires can turn out to be very demanding and will drink,take drugs,be abusive,violent and very arrogant as that is what money turns people into.
They also have very high sexual demands like oral sex.
A women I know with a Ph.D said she will only marry a man with a PH.D !!!
She had just turned 40 waiting for a man with a PH.D sitting in her parents house!!!
Her sister then died from a stroke and then her elders married her to her brother- in-law and his 3 kids.
The brother in law is a medieval muslim male from pakistan with no qualifications…
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I was talking to a relative from California, she is quite well off and most of her friends are very well off too, many doctors, a guy owns several thousand apartments, some of them own several franchises etc,lots of doctors also and they have been married for several years and also their kids are doing quite well. She spoke about one girl who got married to a fairly well off guy and then was divorced and just recently she ran into her at Tiffany’s and she shared with her that she is married to an investment banker and the guy is handsome, multi millionaire and treats her like a goddess. He actually sends a maid with her when she travels back to LA. There are several good stories and many bad ones too.
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I am sure you wouldn’t need to worry about that, many people who don’t fit in don’t even find a job and end up pumping gas or working as security guards..
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It goes both ways…Girls want guys that are Tall, Dark and Handsome, with alot of money. Guys want girls who are Hot/pretty (mainly) and various other traits that they might prefer(educated/religious/fashion sense, family oriented, etc). Sooner or later you realize what your value is and the type of value you provide to others. If the people you are meeting are complaining about superficial things, than you are not meant for them and they are not meant for you. Move on…There are more important issues in the world
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Women aren’t doing anything wrong in wanting to marry someone rich. This is an evolutionary process which humans have also adopted to. It’s called Survival of the fittest and it is prominent in all the creatures of the world. Birds portray this aspect of life brilliantly throughout. In order for a female bird to mate with the male, the male must construct elaborate nest with which to entice the female to enter in to his abode and do the deed. Similarly chimpanzees also display this. The stronger of the apes gets to have sex with all the other female apes. Are we that different from them? Thusly women would go to the one who is able to take care of them and provide for them and give them a life of luxury. Because this is what women have been taught from a very early age. To marry their “Price Charming” or “Knight in shining armor” Did you know how much it would’ve cost in medieval times to become a knight let alone OWN a goddamn piece of armor? It wasn’t like “Oh lets go to home depot and get me some metal” NO You had to find the iron ore and put it in a “Bhatti” and burn the living hell out of it and then pound it for like a year to make it in to proper armor. That was like having a freakin Ferrari back then. No woman said where is my serf whom shall bring me wheat? N*gga gtfo with that ish.!
Sorry I digressed. Don’t hate women for wanting richer guys. No dude would go for a fat girl either.
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lol @ this dude. Frankly, if a woman is going to act like that than she must know how much she is worth on the “shaadi market”. A pretty girl will have a much larger pool of men to select including wealthy guys. On the other hand, a not so pretty girl would have a smaller pool to select from and it does not make sense for her to have such high expectations, otherwise she will be waiting and waiting for no use.
Also just because a pretty girl can marry a rich dude does not mean the marriage will last. We have already seen one example of that recently. It is far better to choose your spouse based on intangible things like character, faith and personality. Beauty is a facade and it doesn’t show you what is lying underneath.
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Just guessing here. She probably did it for the sake of her nephews and nieces. Better their khala be their stepmom than some stranger. Maybe, she knew her former BIL, now husband, to be a good person.
Both spouses having Ph.D does not guarantee mental compatibility I think. The only way to judge mental compatibility is by talking, spending time with someone.
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Well these doctors etc want trophy wives and will routinely commit adultery on the side.
Money is power and power corrupts.
The point is that these very choosy and fussy women will end up getting past there shelf life and end up marrying some backwards wife beating medieval male from Pakistan who will grind her underfoot, torture and abuse with endless demands for dowry.
Also the men will also end up marrying some illiterate girl from Pakistan who will be unaccustomed to western ways of living and will not be able to get a job due to lack of any decent education and they are also useless in bed thinking sex is dirty and will be frigid frumps in bed leading to a divorce.
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Lately I have been dealing with a lot of PHD’s firstly most of them don’t make great money and secondly many are dumb as hell about how things work in real life. I just had to cancel a sale with this dumb guy who wasted so much of our time, he has been wasting his time and scores of other peoples time for 6 yrs looking and over analysing houses and paying close to 90k in rent during that time so who may save two grand, he applied for mortgage at so many places that his credit score is now really low. His family really wanted to move in our community. I wonder how he will face his girls now. A couple of other phds I know are making really low income also.
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Why do you CARE?!???
FYI it is allowed in islam. Only sodomy is makruh for obvious reasons.
Looks like another “gem” like that scientist real estate agent BOBBY on this forum who probably drives a taxi in real life.
Mehnat kar hasad naa kar !!! :D*
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Being polite is a rarity for people like you, being a jerk makes you just another number in the crowd. No wonder the planet is in love with you..lol..Absolutely no shame in driving a cab I have seen doctors waiting to pass their exams, phds and engineers drive cabs. I have also seen cab drivers become multimillionaires..
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The women who only wanted to marry another Ph D is an example of a person who passes some exams or gains a qualification but is quite plainly stupid and lacks depth and perspective.
I mean how many people do you see who discuss their their degrees or exam passes all day every day?
The Ph D was in a soft science i think,political science or sociology which are mostly useless in the real world and she never bothered to apply for a job expecting the husband Ph.D to be the meal ticket.
Pakistani men would feel threatened with their fragile male egos having a wife with a Ph.D. and so she
never got any serious proposals and her parents indulged her enough that she turned 40 waiting and waiting.
The death of her sister must have woken them up that they put their put down and got her married to a taxi driver with no qualifications and with 3 kids
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Hello
Thanks for your post. I was thinking the same but could not have phrased it better. Actually I could add alot more to this but really cant be bothered to because the original post is so full of jahalat, judgemental and reeks of negativity & pessimism. To me it seems to have written from the perspective of some 50+ ys old khoosats of pakistan with 3-4, 18 or older years old kids who have abandoned their wives, the mother of their children and now looking for newer, never been married brides. And this is their way of putting such girls down, psychologically demoralizing them & through (invisible) emotional abuse & psychological mind games who know that they are good and waiting for a compatible matcj. This is very typical of jahil desi population. This is one of the most effective tool they use to herd the poor naive girls and women of their cultures to force her to marry whomever they desire. So if I am not mistaken, either the OP himself is that man or he/she is writing on behalf of such a man who can no more find a newer stupid, never married, naive bride for himself because everyone else left him once he abandoned his wife. So through this post, he wants to spread this disgusting jahilana mentality to make all such worthy never married girls who prefer to wait for the right one than to accept losers such as khoosat so miserable that if they dont accept him or his kind, they’ll eventually end up marrying someone worse than them.
Incase this post really is about a real life case then surely that girl who married for the sake of her sis’s children has increased her ranks. This is a sacrifice not many humans are capable of. So she surely deserves rewards that await her no doubt about that.