There are people out there who love people for their money! I know some people who are golddiggers who just want to stay with someone for their paycheck!! 
What do you think? Will you love someone for their heart or money?! 
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i have my own money 
i won’t love for money…and those who would try to love for mine …
they can dig their grave cause mine is out of their reach and they are gonna taste my knife before finding it 
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Money and material things are nice but shallow and hollow. They dont add meaning to life, they dont give you love. As long as I have enough to feed my family, I'd take being money-poor but love-rich over money-rich but love-poor any day. We still play lotto but what-the-heck, if you can have BOTH well thats just perfect!!
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Love doesnt exist. Be pragmatic poeple :k:
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and ps I know some of these gold-digger types. They have never been happy and its really doubtful that they'll EVER be happy - even if they do happen to capture riches.
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hiccy, thats SO NOT true!!!!!!!!
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Mama, it SO is. There is a love that is a result of longevity, partnership and compromise and it is beautiful but that can be estabilished between any two sane and normally functioning human beings.
Im sure the idea of head over heels starving yourself to death love is fun and all, but its all very holly/bolly wood. Ive yet to see it.
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My question is not about whether love exists or not becoz I know it does…I just want to know how many of u love someone for their money??
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you make golddiggers sound like bad people!
Ive grown up with teh concept that goldigger is a bad term and ladies who do this are not nice
but
when one is looking for a rishta for ones daughter the poor people are generally weeded out
thats a type of gold digging isnt it?
I know a women who is actively encouraging her daughters to find wealthy husbands..
because when her husband died and left her with young children to look after she had a terrible time financially..she doesnt want her daughters to go through that
the "love" issue
some people fall in love and go off and gett married and end up having a terrible life ...like the lady in mansfield park.. the mother of the girl who went to live with her aunt
she wouldnt have ruined her life and her childrens life if she married someone richer
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Surely, if love does exist and as love is by definition uncontrollable and so on, how can you love someone FOR somthing, surely either you do or you dont. However as love doesnt exisit, im sure you can choose to either be in a relationship for money - or otherwise.
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hmmm....many issues here.
first to hiccy....love doesnt have to mean the head-over-heels, butterflies in tummy, cant-think-straight type of love, although thats nice. That type of love is way too intense to last though. LASTING love is different and develops over time - AFTER those initial fires have abated. Thats the real "till death do us part, for better or for worse, for richer or poorer" type of love. WHen you actually speak only half a conversation because your "other half" already knows what you were going to say, when your spouse knows that you've had a really tough day and comes home with take-out so you dont have to cook, when your spouse tells you that you're beautiful when you're 2 months overdue for a hair trim, havent had a shower in 3 days and two of the boys are sick so you've been up nights taking care of them. I could go on and on but I think you can get the idea here.
I do understand looking for a rishta that will provide good support if something should happen to him. Thats why the gals should be able to (if necessary) take care of themselves....if I had been blessed with a daughter, I'd focus on raising her to be independant and able to provide for herself and her family should the need arise. If I were NOT able to do that, I WOULD actually look for a rishta for her that would be able to nicely provide but more importantly - a rishta that is nicely matched and would make her happy. Yes, thats gold-digging in a way...but well, if I thought that she would be happy living on a farm with a farmer...then god bless and that's what I would hope and look for for her. Money is really not and (probably should not be) the primary consideration here. I guess thats my point. Yes, its important - to the extent that you want your kids to be able to provide for themselves and their families....beyond that, its serenity, peace of mind and personal happiness that are of primary importance.
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first to hiccy....love doesnt have to mean the head-over-heels, butterflies in tummy, cant-think-straight type of love, although thats nice. That type of love is way too intense to last though. LASTING love is different and develops over time - AFTER those initial fires have abated. Thats the real "till death do us part, for better or for worse, for richer or poorer" type of love. WHen you actually speak only half a conversation because your "other half" already knows what you were going to say, when your spouse knows that you've had a really tough day and comes home with take-out so you dont have to cook, when your spouse tells you that you're beautiful when you're 2 months overdue for a hair trim, havent had a shower in 3 days and two of the boys are sick so you've been up nights taking care of them. I could go on and on but I think you can get the idea here.
How long does it take for such love to develop? It seems that this type of "mundane" love must yet be strong enough to survive the hiccups in the relationship, e.g. fights and arguments between the two lovers. The picture that you paint looks very boring, but I guess that's what it's like with a successful and long-lasting marriage. I don't think the modern 21st century generation of young people are up to such relationships. They have little tolerance for people who don't shower for 3 days.
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moi independent dont need a man to support me!
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Wunderkind,
You wont understand Mamaof3 but I believe in each & single word of what she says. I have been (& still going) through it.
Answer to the original question.
If u love for money, then u only love money u dont love a human for money. I think it explains everything or do I explain more?
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I live in fear of goldiggers.
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money cannot buy love or can it?
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i wouldnt luv someone for ther money no way, hopefully true love may be still out ther,
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I believe in Love. It’s just that I love money. 
It can. But money can’t buy love for money, can it? 
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I completely agree with Mamof3... true love does exist and it doesnt have to be all bollywoodish or hollywoodish... and the type of love MamaOf3 has described aint boring or old fashioned at all. Who doesnt want a spouse who understands them without speaking a word? its such a wonderful feeling when ur spouse/partner does something special for u without you even asking... and believe it or not, that is all part of being in love...
it doesnt have to take years for it to develop either (ie. moi is an example), can take just a few months.. if the relationship matters to you, and ur willing to put in 200%, then it doesnt take very long at all to develop/find true love
and, nahin... i wouldnt marry someone for their money... (well, i didnt :) )
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i can see two schools of thoughts arguing here, on one side the disbieliver in love, and on the other the believers.
love can arise only with trust, but trust can not be based on fears. once you start doubting your significant other may be a goldigger, love is dead. hence i am not surprised to read maddy, who is notoriously for arranged marriage (versus love one) saying he fears golddiggers.