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Don’t worry hiccup, it’ll hit you when you least expect it
i love this thing so i have to use it: :chusni:
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Psssssht. I'd love my husband even if he didn't shower ever.
i'd give him a sponge bath :D
He doesn't like me putting lotion on him
so i imagine he wouldn't like that as well
he'd prolly go shower then, lol
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i was thinking about love in the train when coming back home, and the result of my thoughts can be summed up like that:
love needs attraction, and is usually based on opposition, and differences btw a man and a woman, so the more differences there are btw genders the greater are the chances that love can be “passionate”. it reminds me of a post on gupshup long time ago where someone said love do not exist in the west, but real love is only from the east…
that may come from the greater differences btw the genders in the east, i mean whne you live in gender segration, the attration for the opposite gender that is almost unknown to you, is greater. so the intensity of love can be stronger.
and there is another point, when people are raised without the idea of dating around like butterflies going from one flower to another, then the links to the “one” are due to be stronger…
then i thought if both girls and boys are raised as equals, how can they love? hmmm, but gays do exist, but usually not similar ones together ;)…anyway i think equality among genders is the best “cure” to love!
so assuming women would depend on the man for finance, is it gold digging that wanting someone with money???
let’s look at it closer
i have allways heard my parents encouraging my sister and I to be independant and self earning…but also to “look for men” from the same “social level”…because parents raise children in such fashion, that they fear their children won’t be able to adjust to another way of life, be it in a lower or upper social class, or in other cultural background…
all societies are based on values and moral codes that are not only peculiar to a certain religion or ethny, but also to a social level!
let’s be honest in most places of that earth,servants, hand workers, farmers and doctors have different way of life, different manners and even vocabulary.
that is a very interesting point, :k:
so loving money, or someone who has money??or someone for the money? it is a matter of perspective i guess…
those who love money can not find happiness…
those who love someone for money are loving money more than the person and won’t be happy either, because someon is more than its money
but those who love someone for himself, including, its money…as you can say that money is a part of our education, knowlezdge and experience…than it is ok!
i mean without my money i would be someone else, it is moeny who bought my life experience, my knowledge, my education… it is a part of me…sure i could have grown as happy without… i would be different…
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do u really think most people will tell the truth?
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I am not with him for his money but I still think Diamonds are nice.
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I will let her take all my money, if that makes her happy…
Love should not be one sided, if he or she is greedy, then other person must show the moral fibers and must try to let somebody see a true love… and if that’s not doable then why to worry about them? If none of two are in factual love of spirit!!!
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Loving someone for their money is just not right....that sort of (fake) love wont last. Infact its not LOVE to begin with...its greed and u know where one is going with that greed in a relationship.
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My mom always says pyaar se pait nahi bharta
"love doesnt fill your tummy(money does)"
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There is nothing wrong with gold digging, that’s how west was won. If there were women out there gold-digging rather than trying to find a husband, they would be in a much better place.
Also, ishq-e-haqiqi does exist.
Nia bibi, just like you changed your views on how many kids you want, it’s only a matter of time and you will change the above too.
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ahmad chacha i will let you know how is that?
I am expensive he better be rich
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^ unless you are being sarcastic, it took you 6 days to change from an independent woman to a gold digger
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lol
love is worth more than gold
because it is more rare than gold
so those who do not have the chance to find love may resort to goldigging
the least lucky ones have neither love nor gold
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Love shove. There are many marriages out there that exist because of love. Most of them have some base in money, in one way or the other.
Otherwise, people would be running after rishtaas of poor people, because they know love better than anybody else.
Last I checked, "fakeer" is not on most mommy and daddy's son-in-law/daughter-in-law hunting checklists.
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Otherwise, people would be running after rishtaas of poor people, because they know love better than anybody else.
Last I checked, "fakeer" is not on most mommy and daddy's son-in-law/daughter-in-law hunting checklists.
i already explained it above in this thread...
think about this: because i have money, don't i deserve to be loved?
should i loose all my money so that i could pretend to be loved only for myself??
and what is "oneself" a sexy figure and pretty face? a high IQ? cooking skills? faith and piety????
we are one and unique, a blend of qualities and faults...money is part of it, along with social background, education, job....
unconditional love, is to be able to "love" the "whole package" of someone...with big or little money, including in the package:D
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That's what I'm saying. Money is part of it to an extent.
After all, if women are told that they need to sit at home and take care of the kids, then don't they have a right to look for someone who is able to financially take care of them and the kids? If you're going to prevent her from working, then allow her to settle with someone who is not a broke dunce.
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:k: furthermore a husband not able to support her wife is a valid reason for divorce…
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Is that Islamically permissable, Paris?
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i don't know...i'm not an islamic scholar
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I never thought I couldn’t make money and so money never mattered to me. So as far as love is considered, money doesn’t count for me. It’s only the heart which is the driving factor for me.