The way I see me and the way others see me

[Sara516]

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[Shak]

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@paliz654654

plz all who reads my posts be4 read this post of mine

it depend which ppl see u!i never felt it can be this much diffrence between ppl who will judge u…
1.i never knew im kindhearted but hubby said im so kind & when i asked mom she said yes thats true but im wonder why never she made me feel im kind?

2.in my own country real life ppl feel me caring & a type of person whom anyone has pro mostly comes to me to seek solutions(freinds & cousins & even classmates)

3.in my own country Enternet world i have a blog which all likes me, feel me as kind & even i made many freinds over my blog & same role as my real life..

4.But on Gupe Shop which belongs to my hubby’s country people i feel ppl feel me rude or selfish or wat that always they fight me in each thread!
i was feeling pakistanies r nagry ppl or its wrong with me! even sometimes i felt better i leave here …cuz be4 i joined here for wedding fourum so it was all peace but since i comment in life1 or make any comment then ppl feel im fighting with them!i

ts not issue…issue is that im thinking diffrent than a desi mind & most of ppl doesnt like it ,so they feel me rude or watever i dont know…but i wished they knew if i comment against anything doesnt mean im fighting with them…
sometimes i feel so bad that i wish to leave but i was staying here cuz i wanted to know more abt pakistanies mind…but sometimes made me so affraid that i feel i cant live one second in pakistan …

thanks allah my hubby doesnt feel me like this that i should think same as him !or maybe others on Gs also think diffrent abt me! i dont know…

[aaliyahkhan1]

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@Sehrysh

My second thread of the day!

Okay, I’ve yet to find a proverb I read years ago that went something like this:

There are four selves:

1. The way you see yourself;

2. The way others see you;

3. The way you THINK others see you; and

4. The way you really are.

1. I see myself as a fun loving person, smart and a bit silly some times…I act like a kid too

2. Majority see me as a very nice person, helpful, kind, smart, dependable, good friend and in your face (like I will say it as it is). My mom thinks am too innocent and have no clue what goes on around me, and that ppl use me!!!

3. Sometimes I feel that maybe they see me as a bit rude…coz I am quite direct, specially with all my friends…

4. I feel I am nice, and I am dependable, and smart and all the other things i mentioned but yes, sometimes I do “act” innocent, jst to see how ppl are…or pretend not to know what is going on till I know fully what is going on. I don’t like to jump into conclusions and you are innocent till proven guilty in my eyes. So basically…I am a very quiet person till I get to know the ppl around me…and know exactly who I am dealing with…I know I am selfish sometimes…but sometimes i feel am too nice Oh and I am VERY STUBBORN!!!

ummmm…should I have put number 4. as number 1., now I have gone and confused myself