Re: The “USED” girls
It is a personal matter and people who believe its their business when someone else makes mistakes have to really put their own egos to the side to understand this. Its not their business because Allah swt will not question them on D-Day as to why person X couldnt keep it in their pants.
The reason I am saying it is a personal matter is because if people refrained from pointing their fingers - you wouldnt have ruined reputations and whatnot. If people decided to stop poking their noses in others’ sins - they wouldnt have these problems.
No one else is involved here unless people actually make the effort to open their mouth and start talking badly about the offender. So if you come across someone who is in such a situation, its best to at least do your part and not contribute to the pollution by refraining from talking about them.
Zina and sins of a personal nature are ONLY between the one who commits them and Allah swt. I really dislike this business of trying to air others’ dirty laundry pretending its a right and totally natural. Its not. You have no business with someone else’s sex life, if they drink, do drugs, etc unless you want to help them through it or you are married to them/planning on marrying them.