The "USED" girls

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Re: The “USED” girls

@Reha

**You’re right. You’re absolutely right that people are judging the MIL and poking fun at her. I think one of the reasons is because people believe she again - is saying and doing things to hurt her DIL or another individual. Whoever was the aggressor, it seems even wrong to us because another person had to suffer the consequences of someone’s deliberately mean acts. **

I have an issue with people who pass judgement on others because of personal sins they have committed. Now that they have done this, they are no longer paak-saaf Muslims like the rest of our community claims to be. Its not right. Its simply not right. None of us know where Allah swt’s mercy goes and whether someone is working hard to correct themselves. I know one girl personally who had such a shady past you would just wonder where her parents really were. Some might think she is going straight to Hell. Some might look at her life now and wonder if they have a different person.

Experience is the best teacher. Everyone learns their lesson at their own time.

So Reha you are saying that comitting adultery is just personal matter and we should not judge them or pointing finger on them because it will not harm anyone else.But in our DESI society if people come to know that girl has committed ZINA, not only they will reject her but also her sisters and other family members. Whole family has to suffer with that girl. Sisters has to face all the consequences of one member’s mistake. So one girl’s mistake making a life hell for other siblings… (just like in other cases like rape, murder and etc where one’s act harm others). So we cannot just ignore the fact that many Muslims boys and girls are involved in this sin.. sad but true.