^You are talkign about an entirely different set of girls.
I am talking about a gruop that does not have to work, the money issue is taken care of by other siblings, they are just 24/7 with an elderly parent which gives meaning to their life and gets them respect from rest of teh family. Upto this its all good, problem starts when they use this parent to get attention or make decisions that are not in best interest of their parent.
I guess I'd be lying if I said these girls don't exist.