^You are talkign about an entirely different set of girls.
I am talking about a gruop that does not have to work, the money issue is taken care of by other siblings, they are just 24/7 with an elderly parent which gives meaning to their life and gets them respect from rest of teh family. Upto this its all good, problem starts when they use this parent to get attention or make decisions that are not in best interest of their parent.
The type of girl that you are talking about is a rare breed and not common at all.
Most desi parents are paranoid about getting daughters married ASAP so it doesnt happen often.