Ok Muzna I take your point. Im sorry I just had the need to share something shocking i found out recently. I have been reading and getting confused on the pious predessesors promiscuous practices for a while, and when finally bumping into some base behind it I just had to share.
I benefitted from that new knowledge and thought maybe so could others.
Regarding self-control, what can I do about this. start a new topic for 'mens self-control'.
Even If I tried that, I dont think it would be much use because firstly there are only a few men in lifestyle and secondly because I think most of the men here are ok.
But maybe the ladies could benefit from increasing thier knowledge, as at the end of the day it is the women who are most affected by cheating phenomenon.
And I tell you upfront truth. I know this hurts but it is not 'mens' entire fault why they go round two-timing.
If women also maintained strict obedience to Allahs rules and orders and showed less of thier attractive selves then wouldnt thier be less problems?
So talking about control Muzna.... Yes men are obligated to control themslves and lower thier gazes, but modern women should also furfill thier obligation to cover thier beauty, which they dont.
Regarding 'men and self-control', when there is a thread on it, then we can talk.