ALL gender's need to WAKE UP, and get over yourself and your pride/needs and DO YOUR JOB as husbands and wives!
As a wife, get over yourself, stop saying "why does the wife need to do everything," and your fears of your husband cheating on you and do YOUR JOB of making him happy. Why not put yourself in his shoes for a second, and think about his needs and wants. Just maybe, your might be depriving him of something*(not only sex). God give you the right to be sexy and being able to attract any man if you wanted, and on top of all of that we as women can make any man ours, if we use what god gave us in the right manner, so **WHY NOT USE THAT ON YOUR HUSBAND*????
As a husband control your dingdongs for just a second, and THINK, JUST THINK, how will your cheating/getting married again effect your wife, childern, your mother, her mother, and soo on. The world does not revolve around YOU, instead there are feeling being hurt when you>> DON'T THINK FROM YOUR BRAIN BUT FROM YOUR DINGDINGS! IT IS NOT UNCONTROLLABLE but you choose not to control yourself, MEN WHO CHEAT/GET MARRIED AGAIN ARE DESPICABLE HUMANS, AND DON'T DESERVE A WOMEN WHO WILL GROW OLD WITH THEM, AND GIVE THEM CHILDREN.
So both you husbands and wives out there, GET OVER YOURSELF AND START BEING THERE FOR ONE ANOTHER.