just because ONE moron in this thread (i do not see anyone else supporting him) is making absurd statements does NOT give you the right malign the entire Pakistani population and call its culture worse then the "dirty south"!? WTF!? insult him all you want, for his PERSONAL views but do NOT include the entire population of Pakistan in your rants. a little objectivity goes a long way.
i have noticed this trend on GS, some idiot makes off-hand comments based on his own weird outlook and suddenly everyone starts dragging and shredding Pakistan to pieces. so sick of it, bash each other all you want for your warped personal views but do NOT malign Pakistan in its entirety, the rest of the world is already doing it, lets give it some respect. so very sad.
Good.
If this person is considered generalizing, then what are others doing?
Exactly the same thing!!!!
There will never be any solid conclusion here since there is no stats or scientific way of finding a truth in this kind of situation.
1- Just because some people do bad things openly does not mean there are not people who do bad things secretly. I think if one critically analyse McPendo statements it appears thast he sees free availibility of sexual opportunities in west as negative factor but he has to realize that these opportunities were always there in Pakistan but not so openly.
2- Just as there are very chaste girls who are brought up in western, christian cultures, there are not so chaste girls in very conservative muslim Pakistani families.
3- Lastly, there are very good girls from Pakistani families brought up in west and in Pakistan with not so religious minded families.
It all depends what kind of families one goes around to look for a rishta.
McPendo has his mind set because of his so called experiences but his approach is totally off limit. Maybe, he hanged around in wrong crowd. If one hangs around in wrong places in Pakistan then one will only get the bad impression as well.
If he wants to look for a 'good' girl based on his experiences then it OK but he should not generalize ALL women from western culture.
Let him find out himself.