Re: The submissive boy...
There is a Pakistani boy we know...not the most aesthetic of fellow...Ginger with ginger freckles...didnt make sense to me either...but even more than that it didnt make sense that one of the fittest girls we knew as going out with him...
Now im mentioning this cos of PakiPrides theory on love...he cared for her she really didnt...Whenever she said jump he jumped...whenever she would need something he would do it...he literally was a yes boy...the worst example though was when she cheated on him he apologised to her for not being a good boyfriend...now for me it just seemed that he was a bit shallow about things and simply thought this girl is amazing looking and every boy wishes they could get her so he was desperate to cling on...for her she knows that he will do anything for her and she can secure with the fact that he will stay loyal to her even if she doesnt...
Now in a strange way it works...she asks he does...boys with self esteem would never put with her nonsense so shes got a whipping boy...and the whipping boy is happy cos hes got the fittest girl around...
So just curious...do girls prefer a yes man or a boy with backbone?...Do they prefer a man who trhey know they are more attractive than or do they prefer an equal?...
Equal..ok one rutba zadah(as explained in Quran)..I dont have a problem with that.I think there should be more personality to a man then merely being told wat to do all the time..and By that nt just work/wrgument wise..I mean by treating each other with dignity and respecting each others differnces...Basically to me if a relationship not challenging enough..then its a lost cause!!(in my book)...