The submissive boy...

[Skittlez]

Re: The submissive boy…

I dont know what you mean, maybe I misread your post.

[decent_Felow]

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@Khumar

seee how easy it is for you to assume that i don’t earn my own living. mehnat mazdoori hum nay bhi ki hai. shok say ki hai. kar kay paison ki kadar hui hai. unlike a LOT of guys in pakistan who have 3 cell phones but daddy is paying for all of them. daddy is paying for the gas, daddy is paying for the bike, daddy is paying tuition for your colleges waghaira waghaira. kabhi agar 15 saal ki umar say hi khud say yeh sab kuch pay karna shuro kar do to kabhi aisay dialogues na maro…

daddddy pe tou us ka hain …gals r exceptionally different case from Guyz …
Boyz hav to remain their with their parents for their life ..might be it is just kinda investment ..future mai boyz bee toou millionsss tim beter or dignified way mai refund ker dain ..vese to parents ka Ehsaaaaaanaaaat he itnay hotai …u cant even think of ka app un ki life ka aik din ka be hisaaaaaab baraber ker sakooo …

par guyzz ki efforts hote hai ka parents khush rahai …at the vurge of their life …

i’m paying for my own education. i don’t spend money unless my mom tells me to spend money. i take whatever she gives me hansi khushi, aur koi demand nahin ki mainay keh mummy dearest mujhe aik achi si gari dilwa dain. i intend to inshallah pay back my parents for whatever they spent on me, all that stuff, besides the roti kapra makan that they didn’t need to spend on me…

y r u taking each and everything personal …its in general abt gals ..achee baaat if u r earning ..apnah liya hee earning kertee hai kese or ka liya tou nahi kertee …app demandzzzzzz ker lai mai tou nahi rooakah …app ka parents hai ap ka haq hai …nahi roti kapra ka be app charge ker lai nah …

as for your demands, kya khoobsoorat thread khola hai aap nay cafe main. kaun si bahu sahi rahay gi? woh jo ghar main jahez la sakay ya na la sakay, aur aap kay khud kay ilfaaz thay keh the first one, no matter how much nak charhi she is, she is a better choice for a wife because she can bring in more money. is that how you intend to support yourself? by a woman’s kamai?

i swear i really dont hav that kinda thinking …agar kush lai ka be aie gee tou apnah liya …vese we hav mashallah wonderful home …2 kanal house well furnished in the center of ISLAMaBAD…jitnah be lai aie …us ki cheezooo se billion times to costly woo ghar hai jis mai woo ai ka rahai ge …i gues these all things r immaterial…as far as relation is concern …agar cheezoo se rishtai bandai goo app kise rich ki beeeeeti wapis ghar nahi jate

character matter kernah i dont knw abt others

[decent_Felow]

Re: The submissive boy…

…soooooooach ka woooo sariiiiiii batai …ham usai pe roooooo diya..agg too yeh haaaaaaaal ka zindage ham pe hansai …kahan hoo mai khahan hai tou kia hai yeh zindageeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee …ahan hoo mai khahan hai tou kia hai…kiyoo hoo mia ajnabiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii…

[decent_Felow]

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@Sabriya786

I dont know what you mean, maybe I misread your post.

u realllllllllly dont neeeed to understand each and everything …

hie re hie re hi rabbbbba …jeeeeetay jaaag ta taaaj mehal meraaa hai nah …hansta bool hai goo kawal meraaaaa hai nah …

[_Iraj]

Re: The submissive boy...

a guy using his senses , not being sensless would be perfect .
there's a fault in being too good and there's a fault in being too harsh .

[sweefs]

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talk abt stereotypes

and some people just need to hush it coz they dnt know what they’re talkn abt and are jst in this thread to show they can “debate” abt an arguement

yeah ok, all women are nuthin but moanless *****es who need to learn to chill? right?

[decent_Felow]

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@sweet.i.f

talk abt stereotypes

and some people just need to hush it coz they dnt know what they’re talkn abt and are jst in this thread to show they can “debate” abt an arguement

yeah ok, all women are nuthin but moanless *****es who need to learn to chill? right?

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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@Khumar

thanks for lumping up alllllllll the women in the world into on category impulse and DF. DF you’re a typical backward minded desi guy, so i’m not surprised, but impulse from you i had expected atleast something a little better, seeing that you have actually experienced the world. how would you like it if someone lumped you together in teh category of evil women, or biatchy women, or whatever other stereotype exists about women?

not every girl is the same as the girl in front of her or behind her. some girls rather have a yes man, while others prefer to have a good argument. you can’t say that girls are perpetually unhappy creatures. people come to that conclusion when they compare apples to oranges.

:k: ^

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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a guy using his senses , not being sensless would be perfect . there's a fault in being too good and there's a fault in being too harsh .

well said^

.....being on either ends is not a good thing...as is the case with any situation.

[decent_Felow]

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@AnGeL_EyEs

:k: ^

well said

]:k:

[Naughty_by_Nature]

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Ill agree its an issue of insecurity...
Its funny..plenty of girls like the idea of a guy that is desirable but then they also dislike that very fact...so they take the safe option...the guy who they feel can never do any better than them...it makes them feel secure and maybe to them secuirty is more important than the fun...
My friends ex who got dumped by her friend cos shes a little neurotic is now with a guy who does exactly as he is told and never gives any attitude back...secure people would never need to take this kind of option but how many people are actully secure...

Similarly the boys are insecure and feel that they have got a serious catch and forget their dignity to make sure they keep this amazing girl...

Its insecure people made for insecure people...
I also agree that there is a distinction between being caring and being someone submissive with no backbone...

[_paki_pride]

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There is a Pakistani boy we know...not the most aesthetic of fellow...Ginger with ginger freckles...didnt make sense to me either...but even more than that it didnt make sense that one of the fittest girls we knew as going out with him...

Now im mentioning this cos of PakiPrides theory on love...he cared for her she really didnt...Whenever she said jump he jumped...whenever she would need something he would do it...he literally was a yes boy...the worst example though was when she cheated on him he apologised to her for not being a good boyfriend...now for me it just seemed that he was a bit shallow about things and simply thought this girl is amazing looking and every boy wishes they could get her so he was desperate to cling on...for her she knows that he will do anything for her and she can secure with the fact that he will stay loyal to her even if she doesnt...

Now in a strange way it works...she asks he does...boys with self esteem would never put with her nonsense so shes got a whipping boy...and the whipping boy is happy cos hes got the fittest girl around...

So just curious...do girls prefer a yes man or a boy with backbone?...Do they prefer a man who trhey know they are more attractive than or do they prefer an equal?...

oiiii
wtf u on abt man

r u sayin that THAT iz my theory abt luv
how cud **I **ever say that playin around with a guy iz luv

[Amber11]

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There is a Pakistani boy we know...not the most aesthetic of fellow...Ginger with ginger freckles...didnt make sense to me either...but even more than that it didnt make sense that one of the fittest girls we knew as going out with him...

Now im mentioning this cos of PakiPrides theory on love...he cared for her she really didnt...Whenever she said jump he jumped...whenever she would need something he would do it...he literally was a yes boy...the worst example though was when she cheated on him he apologised to her for not being a good boyfriend...now for me it just seemed that he was a bit shallow about things and simply thought this girl is amazing looking and every boy wishes they could get her so he was desperate to cling on...for her she knows that he will do anything for her and she can secure with the fact that he will stay loyal to her even if she doesnt...

Now in a strange way it works...she asks he does...boys with self esteem would never put with her nonsense so shes got a whipping boy...and the whipping boy is happy cos hes got the fittest girl around...

So just curious...do girls prefer a yes man or a boy with backbone?...Do they prefer a man who trhey know they are more attractive than or do they prefer an equal?...

Equal..ok one rutba zadah(as explained in Quran)..I dont have a problem with that.I think there should be more personality to a man then merely being told wat to do all the time..and By that nt just work/wrgument wise..I mean by treating each other with dignity and respecting each others differnces...Basically to me if a relationship not challenging enough..then its a lost cause!!(in my book)...

[Maha_Shonu]

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nice topic.. i actually know some one exactly like that.. it is fun in the beginning... u getting all done as soon as u say it.. but in time it all changes.. no one stays the same over the years.. he may be immature or too smitten at the moment.. but in time they all realize.. and when they do.. then its so difficult to answer the WHY when u ask them to jump.. also.. the fun part is only in the very beginning.. it gets annoying very quickly.. u go to a market and ask him weather he likes black or blue and he says.. JO marzy.. its like raising a PET.. as per my opinion gurls when they say they want a " knight in shinning armor".. they really mean a ruff tuff guy.. who knows where he wants to be and whos a protector.. not just a YES BOY!!!.. if the gurls still had to responsible for every thing.. y would they even get married?

[hitchki]

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Impulse, why do you hate women so much.

[_Iraj]

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@Naughty_by_Nature

Its insecure people made for insecure people…
I also agree that there is a distinction between being caring and being someone submissive with no backbone...

:k:

Angel-eyes and Khumar

[WitchDr]

Re: The submissive boy...

There is a Pakistani boy we know...not the most aesthetic of fellow...Ginger with ginger freckles...didnt make sense to me either...but even more than that it didnt make sense that one of the fittest girls we knew as going out with him...

Now im mentioning this cos of PakiPrides theory on love...he cared for her she really didnt...Whenever she said jump he jumped...whenever she would need something he would do it...he literally was a yes boy...the worst example though was when she cheated on him he apologised to her for not being a good boyfriend...now for me it just seemed that he was a bit shallow about things and simply thought this girl is amazing looking and every boy wishes they could get her so he was desperate to cling on...for her she knows that he will do anything for her and she can secure with the fact that he will stay loyal to her even if she doesnt...

Now in a strange way it works...she asks he does...boys with self esteem would never put with her nonsense so shes got a whipping boy...and the whipping boy is happy cos hes got the fittest girl around...

So just curious...do girls prefer a yes man or a boy with backbone?...Do they prefer a man who trhey know they are more attractive than or do they prefer an equal?...

It is a marriage of convenience. Being submissive is fulfilling his needs. Depending on the intensity of the desire to get something, people do things differently. Probably, neither of them have any long term commitment, but their short term commitment is based on keeping each other happy. Why are you getting jealous, NBN ;)?