asalaam o alaykum!
This is in response to 'Faceup'. I was away for couple of days that is why my reply appears after a little while. This is a long post, but I had no choice as 'Faceup' had pointed out whatever antiIslamic propaganda he had ever come across. So please bear with me.
Faceup....>>Really, Is Rajm or Stoning in the Quran? Can you show me where?<<
This is a very detailed and debatable topic. But it will boil down to the fact that yes ayat e rajm is no where in Qura~n. However, the punishment for adultry, is stoning to death, as this is what was prescribed by the Prophet, pbuh and this is what was practiced by Khulafa Rashdeen. But there is strong evidence that aya rajm was some aya of Old testiment. As this is what Prophet pronounced when, he gave verdict for the two Jews who came to him for similar case. May I remind you that Qura~n says:
"your companion is neither astray nor being mislead nor does he say of his desire. It is no less than inspiration sent down him." (53:2-4)
Faceup...>>1) The worth of a man's life is equal to the market value of 100 camels or 200 cows and that of a woman is equal to half of the man's, 50 camels or 100 cows.<<
Wrong! And may I ask you which shariah law is this?
Faceup...>>2) The blood money or dieh, a sum paid to the next of kin as compensation for the murder of a relative, is twice as much in the case of a murdered man as in the case of a woman.<<
Wrong again. Dieh is awarded as per the networth of the person murdered and there is no issue of sexes in it. Where do you get these infos??
Faceup...>>3) The number of witnesses required to prove a crime is higher if the witnesses are female or 2 just men. Female’s testimony in a court of law is equal to half of that of a man.<<
True. Qura~n says:
"And call to witness, from among your men, two witnesses. And if two men be not (at hand) then a man and two women, of each as ye apporve as witnesses, so that if the one erreth (through forgetfulness) the other will remember." (2:228)
You must realize that this does not concern human rights, but the emphasis is with the charge imposed on the accused, which the witnesses have to fulfil in accordance with Qura~n words:
"Hide not testimony. He who hides it, verily his heart is sinful." (2:283)
Accordingly, woman is exempted from the obligation of testifying, the heavy responsiblity of which rest on men alone. The modern science does reflect some evidence that woman is more exposed to forgetfulness, absent minded as to the precisions of the facts to which she bears witness. But if you care to ponder over this verse, there is nothing that could do wrong to the consideration of woman only, wherever it is more expedient to call her alone as a witness. This verse is not to fan any controversy of sexes but surely to gaurantee the human rights of the accused. It is fortunate of a woman to be exempt. But Islamic doctrine of justice can only be understood when one rids himself from the egotistic mind possessed by its 'maleness' and 'femalness'. You must understand the equality in law does not imply mathematical equility.
Faceup...>>4) In most countries, she can’t vote or get elected to office. Females are banned from studies such as engineering, agriculture, archaeology, restoration of the historic monuments and handicrafts, and many other fields. They are not allowed to become a judge.<<
Wrong. Pakistan is a Muslim country and yet it had a female prime minister. Indonesia is another readily citable example. A woman is the head of opposition and a second in command too. Turky, another Muslim country has woman justices. There have been numerous educationist and skilled woman thru out the Islamic history.
Faceup...>>5) Women/females inherit only half as much as male siblings.<<
True. It may appear as frustration to you but the heavy responsibility incumbent upon the man to assume the sustenance of the family lies solely on man and not on woman. If you are responsible for your household, than obviously you have to get a bigger share of wealth also. Woman is to stay inside the home, while it is man who is to work in the factories. It is very logical n fair.
Faceup...>>6) Women cannot get custody of her children. Even if their father dies. In the case of divorce or death she has to surrender her children to their father and/or his family. She cannot claim an alimony.<<
Wrong. The children stay with mom unless there is a danger to them from her character, until they are mature. But they belong to the father, no doubt, afterall they are his seed. Are you carrying your mother's last name or your father's? I think your father's as you are his progency. Or your children do they take your last name or your wife's? This practice is not limited to Islam, but all over the world, the children belong to the father. Yes Islam does provide alimony.
Faceup...>>7) Woman cannot travel, work, go to college, join organizations, even visit her friends and relatives without my father or husband's permission. She must live where her husband desires.<<
Wrong! Absolutely absured.
Faceup...>>8) A woman can get arrested, beaten, and sometimes even executed if she wear make-up, nylons, bright colors and specifically the color of red. Normally, she cannot choose her mate and is not permitted to divorce him if things did not work out.
Wrong. You must get your head examined.
Faceup...>>9) According to Islamic laws: the most suitable time for a girl to get married is the time when the girl can have her first menstrual period in her husband's house rather than her father's. She has to meet all her husband's desires including the sexual ones. And if she refuses he has the right to deny her food, shelter, and all of life's necessities.<<
Wrong again. Please qoute the Qura~nic verse or any hadith in support of your above mentioned male chauvinistic remark.
Faceup...>>10) A woman’s husband can divorce her without her knowledge and by the Islamic law he is required to support her for only 100 days. And if he dies, she is entitled to 1/8 of his Estate. A husband is not required to provide her with alimony.<<
Another nonsense. I think you are reading too many anti islamic books.
Faceup...>>11) A woman can only ask for divorce if her husband is impotent, if he does not have sex with her at least one night in every forty nights, and if he refuses to provide her with a minimum standard of living.<<
I don't know about the 'one in forty night' ruling. But yes no party should be impotent or frigid, and both are to provide one n another with emotional and husband is to provide financial comfort. But this ruling is for both man and woman.
Faceup...>>12) Her husband can have four permanent wives and if he is from Shi'i sect, he can have as many temporary wives as he wants.<<
Islam encourages ONE wife. Islam never encourages polygamy, no more than it instituted it. And it is well known that, even among those who forbid it, polygamy is still in practice, in a concealed way, causing much material, social, and moral damage to husbands, wives and children. That is why Islam brought remedy. It must be noted that, as it is evident the 'new wife' wilfully accepts polygamy, to beocme a legitimate spouse, She freely determines her option, to save herself from shame. To deprive her of this choice would obviously affect her right to become a legitimate wife. For your kind information, the first wife has a privilege that while signing the contract of marriage, she can demand divorce, if the husband ever contemplates a second marriage without her consent.
Faceup...>>13) In Islam, the age of majority for a girl is 9 years and for a boy is 15 years. This means that a 9 year old girl and a 15 year old boy are considered to have the same level of maturity. Now, if girls reach maturity six years earlier than boys, then why did God place men in charge of women? Was there something wrong with God's Judgment?<<
Says who? Where is this written?
Faceup...>>14) In Islam, if a 6 or 7 year old girl is raped by an adult man, she will be the one that gets punished. It is her fault because she provoked it. The parents then will burn or kill her because she has dishonored the family.<<
You are talking about 'honor killing'. But just because it has been practiced in some Muslim countries, does not mean that it is found in Islam. And for you to come on these public boards and assert these allegation is nothing but a reflection of your perpetual agenda. But Allah knows how to protect this beatiful deen and will inshaAllah disgrace those who try to malign Islam. You are here to demonise and diabolise Islam and trying so hopelessly to portray it as an evil force.