Nisha25: And teach your son to NEVER hold hands with other men in public:p Thats another thing some Pakistani men do...it needs to be another thread actually hahaha i wonder why! Ive never seen other women stare or hold hands in public ;)
at first, i was thinking that the men holding hands were gay so i thought aww they're showing their love for each other :D it's a south asian straight man thing, who knew
Let’s face it…those statistics are hardly indicative of anything aside from the fact that women in the west are more likely to report a rape compared to women in desi countries.
Women in desi countries just don’t come forward due to the stigma…that doesn’t mean rape is less of an occurrence in desi countries.
They stare because they don't have easy access to women.
Goraas don't stare cuz western society is more open (so its nothing to do with respect IMHO)..... they start dating in early teenage so women's bodies are no longer a mystery to them..... sab kuch dekha aur experience kiya hota hai.
They stare because they don't have easy access to women.
Goraas don't stare cuz western society is more open (so its nothing to do with respect IMHO)..... they start dating in early teenage so women's bodies are no longer a mystery to them..... sab kuch dekha aur experience kiya hota hai.
Pretty much like a child if you forbid him/her to eat favorite cookie and place it in a glass jar out of reach.
Here u can see Desi and Kurdish guys etc. standing in malls, railway-station in groups and really when u walk throw u just feel like u have been in X-ray! They dont shame to watch girls up and down, but if u walk with some guy or man who looks like its Ur husband, boyfriend, brother or dad then they dont watch.
I hate that when u are walking then some desiguy or kurdish etc walks next to u and he might get like really close and say really quietly near ur ear "beautiful girl" or "Assalam Aleikum", thats so gross eww! And thats why i hate walk mall alone and if i walk alone im always on phone. Really desi and Kurdish guys are those who comes and ask about ur name and number, goraas are so shy usually that they dont come to talk stranger girls in malls etc, they talk with girls when they are in club and drunk.
Goraas doesnt watch same way, but if u walk throw in construction site, then its the same thing, and they dont shame to watch or whistle. And usually they are like really old goraas, and they like watch every single woman who walks by old, young, everyone xD
I just hate that guys stare girls that way, its so bad habit. But really here local western girls love it when foreigner guys whistle and talk to them.
Those who've been out with female relatives in Desi majority areas will know how much disturbing and rude staring goes on by Desis. To deny that is laughable.
Its a natural tendency...they're admiring beauty. LOL
i don't know about other women but the constant staring would make me feel more nervous and i tend to think is there some big zit on my face that i don't know about and that they're trying to signal me about
Let's face it...those statistics are hardly indicative of anything aside from the fact that women in the west are more likely to report a rape compared to women in desi countries.
Women in desi countries just don't come forward due to the stigma...that doesn't mean rape is less of an occurrence in desi countries.
If you are living in west then you must know what happens over the parties , in university housing , in a gf/bf relationship . . . haven't you seen all those street chalking saying ''no means no'' . . . there is enough evidence out there to prove these statistics .
Talking about girls staring . . . Now in police stations here in Pakistan they have police women on reception desk . Recently I paid visit to one of them . . . anyways bottom line is its not a comfortable feeling when someone is staring at you , especially women in uniform ( shalwar kameez ) .
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