Off course men also would like women to come up to them and say: " Hey baby! You kinda cute! Whatchya doin tonight?"
But no that is not reality. It just gives “fuzzy warmth” in cold nights in bed to men or women.
Besides, both men and women either think other person is too forward or in reverse situation they think other person may not like it.
P.S. If I were to be doing that, meaning walking up to any woman and saying whatever I felt in all previous days and years, I would be pretty much bruised up or beaten up if not dead by now.
Partially true?
Anyhow, agree with your points.
Please read above what stops a man (or a woman).
In an ideal, open world that would be possible, but even in so called open societies that is not so common.
Yes, that may be more embarrassing too for a lot of women.
There are nagative reasons too. But what I was referring to is most women do like being stared at regardless if they are shy or not. Depending on the circumstances of course.
You are talking about her insecurity here which could make her doubt the reason for the stare. I already mentioned that above in respect to booger in the nose.
Most men are just horny. They still try to ignore the flaws and focus at something attractive be it the the shape/color of her lips or eyes, or whatever… or size of her…
So rest assured, when be stared at… Feel comfortable and at best ignore if do not like it. Just a tip!
Again that is asking for something not so common. Both men and women feel uneasy in speaking out.
No man would just write a poem to a stranger at first sight. That would be a nerdy act!