Guys does anybody know a desan who does not have a sob story? A sob story is one where the said desan is wronged by a man and/or his family. Basically her first love/marriage potential what not. The said desan carries emotional baggage from this pervious relationshiip which is rather…impressive.
I just wanted to know if i am the only one who comes across these sorts of desans. Because every bloody desan i meet has some bloody sob story that brings undue emotional baggage no man on earth should ever have to deal with.
So is it just me or do all desans have a sob story?
Panties in a bunch it seems. Oh well. I did not ask who caused it nor was it valid. I was enquiring from the male portion whether it was normal. Now unless either one of you had an operation, could you bugger off?
I think emotiional baggage with desi girls is a GIVEN!! haha my guy friends now just assess how bad the damage is before taking the plunge... if the girl is still crying over it...then forget it...but if she is just whining...there is hope!!!!
^ then u better be careful coz u dont have a brain
Every desan Ive met has it yaar, its just there…Xcept for one I met, but she had family problems, & still does. But that doesnt count.
It should all be blamed on these crappy indian drama serials & recycled movies that instill into the brains of our dear desans, who in turn just want to fall in love & then sob over it later on. Control yaar, y dont u gurls do something creative at home, instead of watching the 999th episode of mother in law stabs daughter in law something like that.
Creativity for desans should be to pick up a palette, & just draw…no wait, they will start drawing hindi actors…
Creativity for desans should be, composing music…no wait, they will start composing hindi tunes
Creativity for desans should be, groom their writing skills…no wait, they will start writing hindi movies
Perhaps they should just listen to us for a change.
I have lots of "guys have wronged me" luggage. But then again, one of my major ex-crushes decided to pit 5 of my best friends against me (by making one of them run against me in a math club election, and THAT is something math nerdy friends do not do to one another!) for revenge...I had beaten him in a math club election one year earlier, and he was already president of the club at the time...so he lost a second consecutive term.
And then the second major crush just runs every time i see him. Literally. He is a bolting rabbit, if I ever saw one.
Everyone goes through their fair share of experiences in life. Unlike robots humans cannot erase their past. Your expectation of a woman without a baggage is unrealistic. Everyone has issues they are dealing with..not necessarily relationship related baggage but it could be anything..from selfesteem issues to just pure hate for opposite gender.
If you want to partner with someone then you should be willing to accept the whole package...that would be a rather realistic approach(...however not as ideal as one would like it to be).
Everyone goes through good and bad experiences, and more often than not they're beyond ones control. As long as we learn from these and turn bad experiences into positive ones, I dont see why such experiences should be regarded as 'baggage'. At the same time, one can't be expected to forget. Fayz, good response and SG, you surprise me more by the day. If you don't fancy 'bloody desans' why waste your time with them in the first place.
Fayz I am not discussing emotional baggage per se. Everybody has emotional baggage. You, me, everybody, everybody (just for you blues brothers fans out there).
Most men know a sob story when they see one. It is just not emotional baggage, it is one of those situations where the female has been warped by what happened to her. You know the gories like that. I do not really see why i need to differentiate between emotional baggage and a sob story.
Everybody has come across females who have emotional baggage but are very sane and easy to deal with. They are by societal definitions normal.
A sob story female is not. She is warped.
Cat-woman you would be surprised by how much I post just to take the piss.
PCG he will still bolt if i have a girl or if i don't.
^ If your crush turns out to be a sissi, It is your bad luck. Next time you have a crush and the guy has gay tendencies...
So you better alter your signature like ...mmmm
I believe in blah blah and other fantasy creatures like straight men.
Sir Galahad-- I suppose you are *mostly*talking about desi girls living abroad.
But as malik said, it is mostly due to lovey dovey films and serials, that they want to explore love and have crush which mostly turns out to be wrong choice. Like the ones mentioned in this thread.
But to answer your question, No. Most of the girls I know, don't have that emotional baggage. But thats me.
something like that.
