He was very spiteful in some his conversation with me saying things like....
'its so easy for you, you can just go and find someone better, you dont care about me' and he said things like ' i dont want to see you because i cant see you happy while i feel dead inside'
Saying things like that shows that he doesnt really respect me right?
Nope, he's not respecting you, so stick to your plan of moving on with your life. You're a med school student and that in itself requires so much concentration and dedication. Don't get side-tracked from your goals because of him.
He's saying things like that in order to make you feel guilty so that you'll come back to him. Basically it's a manipulative guilt-trip strategy, don't fall for it. As I said earlier, if a guy truly has changed (which is hard to do).........he will prove it through consistently positive actions..........and crying/guilting is not one of them!
Also, I noticed something interesting. I remembered in one of your older threads, you had written how your x thought you weren't good looking enough for him.....and that he (perhaps from the influence of his male friends) thought he could do better than you by checking out other girls out there. AND NOW he's crying on the phone and bitterly saying that YOU will end up finding someone "better" than him. **Oh how the tables have turned!!!!!!!!!!!!! **What goes around really does come around, eh? He has found himself in the same situation that he once put you in.