The Red Pill/Manosphere

[Deeba1234]

Re: The Red Pill/Manosphere

@Thornewood9

**The kids will probably stay with the mother as is recommended in Islam but the father can see them as often as he likes and he must support them financially until they reach marriageable age. That sounds pretty fair and equal to me.
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In Islam in “normal” cases the mother would only get custody if the children were very young (up to 7ish for a boy and puberty for a girl).. If the children were younger but she were to remarry she’d also forfeit custody to the father.. After the ages mentioned they would go and live with their father.. A son can choose who he wants to live with later on but a daughter stays under her father’s custody until she marries so it’s actually only in cases where the children are very young that the mother usually gets custody..

Detailed info here: Custody of Children after divorce | Relationships | Fiqh

(I personally don’t think it’s so fair that she needs to stay unmarried to keep her children whilst her husband can remarry with apparently no effect)