The Red Pill/Manosphere

[Thornewood9]

Re: The Red Pill/Manosphere

@badabing

Here in the West, British Pakistani women in particular, including my phupos, khalas, cousins etc - they want their Islamic rights of mehr, separate dwelling, no inlaw bs, 50/50 on chores, the ability for men to provide when she wants to do the stay at home mum thing but yet if a marriage turns sour they love the British legal system to screw their husbands over for lame reasons such as the spark is gone, you don’t show me affection anymore, I love you but not in love with you, if you cheat its your fault and if I cheat its your fault, you work to late for the things I desire but please don’t reduce my ability to consume by working less hours - I’ll just go out and and get my sexual gratification from outside the list goes on and on. So if a woman ends a marriage in the West for these reasons, why should a man loose upto 70% of his net worth, his home, see his kids every other weekend? I actually prefer the Pakistani system where the man gets to keep all his ****.

Me the fellas and girls and work were talking about this a few hours after the opening trading rush, and the men agreed with me - alot said these are the reasons they aren’t committing to relationships anymore - just fuc.k them and dump them. The women were agasped, like they were entitled to treat men this way because their mothers told them so.

I see more and more British Pakistanis turning agnostic - I fear in a generation or two we’ll be exactly the same over here.

I agree, chivalry is great, but if women want equality in all realms, why can’t a woman be chivalrous? 50/50, no? If men have moved on a lot of issues in the last 50 years here in the West, why can’t women move from their preconceived ideas of how a man should behave?

I live in Britain too. And these women you know, well, I can’t comment on what they would do but you can’t generalise the whole female population based on a few women in your family. And if you want one side of the Islamic coin then you need to accept the other too. If people are picking and choosing then that says more about them than anything else. As for more British Pakistanis becoming agnostic, there are more that are becoming more interested in their religion. So again you can’t generalise based on only what you see. Where I live in the north of England there’s more youth becoming interested in Islam. There’s a revival going on in the masjids. And I intend to bring my children up in that environment. I’m talking from an Islamic perspective so just as I’d encourage young men to follow the prophet pbuh in being a good husband I would also encourage young women to follow the examples of his wives.
Finally it takes two to tango. Yes there are some men who get done over and some women too but these cases aren’t the majority. You seem biased in your thinking. Marriage takes two people to make it work. If a marriage fails there were faults on both sides. If you end up marrying a woman or man who don’t know the meaning of marriage and how to work at a relationship then that’s bad luck I suppose.