The Red Pill/Manosphere

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Re: The Red Pill/Manosphere

@Thornewood9

Just that last bit about pro men’s rights in divorce and child custody. In Islam if divorce happens the woman keeps her mahr that was given to her when she got married and that’s it. Whatever else is his he keeps and what is hers she keeps. As for child custody the man cannot be refused access to his child unless he is a danger to them and he has the right that his children bear his name. The kids will probably stay with the mother as is recommended in Islam but the father can see them as often as he likes and he must support them financially until they reach marriageable age. That sounds pretty fair and equal to me.

Also chivalry is encouraged in Islam. The prophet pbuh was extremely chivalrous and romantic to his wives. It made him more of a man not less. And I sometimes hold the door open for my husband and even buy him flowers. It can go both ways. Men like to be romanced too lol.

Here in the West, British Pakistani women in particular, including my phupos, khalas, cousins etc - they want their Islamic rights of mehr, separate dwelling, no inlaw bs, 50/50 on chores, the ability for men to provide when she wants to do the stay at home mum thing but yet if a marriage turns sour they love the British legal system to screw their husbands over for lame reasons such as the spark is gone, you don’t show me affection anymore, I love you but not in love with you, if you cheat its your fault and if I cheat its your fault, you work to late for the things I desire but please don’t reduce my ability to consume by working less hours - I’ll just go out and and get my sexual gratification from outside the list goes on and on. So if a woman ends a marriage in the West for these reasons, why should a man loose upto 70% of his net worth, his home, see his kids every other weekend? I actually prefer the Pakistani system where the man gets to keep all his ****.

Me the fellas and girls and work were talking about this a few hours after the opening trading rush, and the men agreed with me - alot said these are the reasons they aren’t committing to relationships anymore - just fuc.k them and dump them. The women were agasped, like they were entitled to treat men this way because their mothers told them so.

I see more and more British Pakistanis turning agnostic - I fear in a generation or two we’ll be exactly the same over here.

I agree, chivalry is great, but if women want equality in all realms, why can’t a woman be chivalrous? 50/50, no? If men have moved on a lot of issues in the last 50 years here in the West, why can’t women move from their preconceived ideas of how a man should behave?