If you doubt the motives of the posters on this forum then - why do you think you will get a serious answer for your questions? And what makes you feel that people here will take you seriously, after stating what you stated about them?
The trick is to be truthful but not disclosing … gauge responses in such a way that you can learn from them … expect some people to be idiots and others to give proper replies - also expect the idiots to give proper replies now and again … Become a regular and people will start to trust your questioning and start to offer more and more serious advice …