Re: the pictures I really don't think were for rishta !!
^okay on your last thread, you said he wanted to see a pic of you , your house, your ca*r?I mean seriously who does that? Even say he is interested in you, do you really want a guy like *that?
and then he replies," i am busy for next two days going out of city, dont ring me...when i am free i will ring you.?"
would it have killed him to actually call prior to his departure and say, im going to PK, to attend some family matters, blah blah?
PuH Lease?????
Do u really expect any of us to say he's head over heels for you????
^okay on your last thread, you said he wanted to see a pic of you , your house, your ca*r?I mean seriously who does that? Even say he is interested in you, do you really want a guy like *that?
and then he replies," i am busy for next two days going out of city, dont ring me...when i am free i will ring you.?"
would it have killed him to actually call prior to his departure and say, im going to PK, to attend some family matters, blah blah?
PuH Lease?????
Do u really expect any of us to say he's head over heels for you????
Oh dont get me wrong...he called as soon as he found out about his mother and told me he was going to pakistan that day...its only been this week he has been busy and not answering his phone...thats when I got the text saying that he was busy and that he would call after 2 days....is that bad then? I really do not know anymore...so many mixed messages on here lol
I know in Pakistan you kinda do a tradition a month after death...which will be on Thursday...so maybe he having to get things sorted for that or something
remember those pictures that guy friend of mine asked for? well I really do not think they were for rishta!!!!!!!!! Tried calling him for 2 days now...only one call per day...and each time just get a "cold" text back saying he is busy for next 2 days...is out of town with family and NOT to call him!!! I mean wtf!!!!!!!!!!! Over exagerating? family not approve of me? or just that he simply can't answer his phone to me while with family?
Opinions required!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanksssss
I'm sorry I cannot give an opinion. But I will remark: Oh my God! What were you thinking...?!
Oh dont get me wrong...he called as soon as he found out about his mother and told me he was going to pakistan that day...its only been this week he has been busy and not answering his phone...thats when I got the text saying that he was busy and that he would call after 2 days....is that bad then? I really do not know anymore...so many mixed messages on here lol
I know in Pakistan you kinda do a tradition a month after death...which will be on Thursday...so maybe he having to get things sorted for that or something
I'm really not sure what month your referring too...When someone passes you mourn for 3 days and move on. Unless it's a spouse, then you can mourn for 40 days. And basically you just pray for the person. But even then during mourning you just wipe tears away and pray for the person that died.
Anyways, I was perusing through your past posts, and Catwomen I wanna sympathize you, and tell you to dump this guy. This guy sounds like a player, and you sound a desperate clingy girl in denial. There are plenty of great guys out there who will like you for who you are! so stop obsessing abou this person, or any guy for atleast a month, and enjoy being single and independent !:)
LOL come on guys!!! his mother defo has died...he has put on his facebook...and had loads of condolances from friends etc.....who in their right mind would lie about their mother dieing??? THATS SICK!!!!!!!!!!
lol and the pic...I put the wrong one up...so that one didnt get sent! Thats on my facebook...but according to him the saw that 2....
why do u guys think he is playing me?
I never said he's mom didn't die. May be you should give few weeks before contacting him again.
I'm really not sure what month your referring too...When someone passes you mourn for 3 days and move on. Unless it's a spouse, then you can mourn for 40 days. And basically you just pray for the person. But even then during mourning you just wipe tears away and pray for the person that died.
Anyways, I was perusing through your past posts, and Catwomen I wanna sympathize you, and tell you to dump this guy. This guy sounds like a player, and you sound a desperate clingy girl in denial. There are plenty of great guys out there who will like you for who you are! so stop obsessing abou this person, or any guy for atleast a month, and enjoy being single and independent !:)
I am sorry but I take great offence to that....if I was clingy and deperate I would be a "stalking" kind....bombarding with calls and messages....I have called 2 times!!!!!!! not 200!! I don't think I have gave the impression of being clingy and desperate at all! If I was obsessing about this guy...surely I would not be "leaving him 2 it" now....he said he would call after 2 days....if not...I gonna leave it untill friday/saturday then just send a quick text to see if he wants picking from airport (which any caring friend would do)
Please do not insult me....caus I know who I am...I am single anyway...u desis dont date remember (well most of u) and I am not dating either as do not have the time...work...home...work...home etc etc
I am sorry but I take great offence to that....if I was clingy and deperate I would be a "stalking" kind....bombarding with calls and messages....I have called 2 times!!!!!!! not 200!! I don't think I have gave the impression of being clingy and desperate at all! If I was obsessing about this guy...surely I would not be "leaving him 2 it" now....he said he would call after 2 days....if not...I gonna leave it untill friday/saturday then just send a quick text to see if he wants picking from airport (which any caring friend would do)
Please do not insult me....caus I know who I am...I am single anyway...u desis dont date remember (well most of u) and I am not dating either as do not have the time...work...home...work...home etc etc
Pls appologise!
Okay fine I'm sorry for having it sound insulting. I didnt meant that way, but just that it sorta SOUNDS clingy.......you have called 2 times, and you have 10 threads devoted to this guy and what he thinks of you!!! if you called him 200 x that would be called the stalking kind, you are correct. but your not at that level yet!
".if not...I gonna leave it untill friday/saturday then just send a quick text to see if he wants picking from airport (which any caring friend would do)"
No, no dont do that!!! if he wants you to pick him from the airport HE SHOULD call you!!! you've called him enough times!! it's his turn to show if he shares the same feelings as you!!! If he were your boyfreind it would have been appropriate, but you say yourself you're not dating him!
Okay fine I'm sorry for having it sound insulting. I didnt meant that way, but just that it sorta SOUNDS clingy.......you have called 2 times, and you have 10 threads devoted to this guy and what he thinks of you!!! if you called him 200 x that would be called the stalking kind, you are correct. but your not at that level yet!
".if not...I gonna leave it untill friday/saturday then just send a quick text to see if he wants picking from airport (which any caring friend would do)"
No, no dont do that!!! if he wants you to pick him from the airport HE SHOULD call you!!! you've called him enough times!! it's his turn to show if he shares the same feelings as you!!! If he were your boyfreind it would have been appropriate, but you say yourself you're not dating him!
your right...I think there is about 3 threads re: him and a few about death in Pakistan...just caus I am interested (that is not a bad thing) I like learning new things abbout peoples cultures.....OK I not gonna contact him at all!!! FINITTOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!! maybe I will change my number 2 :-0
Oh dont get me wrong...he called as soon as he found out about his mother and told me he was going to pakistan that day...its only been this week he has been busy and not answering his phone...thats when I got the text saying that he was busy and that he would call after 2 days....is that bad then? I really do not know anymore...so many mixed messages on here lol
I know in Pakistan you kinda do a tradition a month after death...which will be on Thursday...so maybe he having to get things sorted for that or something
catwomen, dont let it get to you!
from what i read in this post, there is nothing going on, the guys mom died. give him a break...
i dont think he's playing you
Its up to you if u want to text him to pick him up or not.
so chronological:
he asked you for pics, later his mom died and he went to pak and showed the pics to family?
from what i read in this post, there is nothing going on, the guys mom died. give him a break...
i dont think he's playing you
Its up to you if u want to text him to pick him up or not.
so chronological:
he asked you for pics, later his mom died and he went to pak and showed the pics to family?
No, the chronology, as I understand it was,
Mom died, asked for her pictures, then went to Pak and told her not to call him.
Mom died, asked for her pictures, then went to Pak and told her not to call him.
No wrong both of u...heres the order of events....
1) His mum died on the day I had a job interview...he called straight away 2 tell me...that night he went pakistan
2) After about 2 weeks being in Pakistan (caus his mum died)...he asked for pictures
3) End of week 3...he said he gonna be busy for next 2 days and not too call....but would call me when he is not busy!!
No wrong both of u...heres the order of events....
1) His mum died on the day I had a job interview...he called straight away 2 tell me...that night he went pakistan
2) After about 2 weeks being in Pakistan (caus his mum died)...he asked for pictures
3) End of week 3...he said he gonna be busy for next 2 days and not too call....but would call me when he is not busy!!
didn't you ask what he needs your pictures for? talk to him directly, if you haven't even if he breaks up with you.
No wrong both of u...heres the order of events....
1) His mum died on the day I had a job interview...he called straight away 2 tell me...that night he went pakistan
2) After about 2 weeks being in Pakistan (caus his mum died)...he asked for pictures
3) End of week 3...he said he gonna be busy for next 2 days and not too call....but would call me when he is not busy!!
only think i can come up with: family wasnt enthousiastic after seeing ur pics or he trully is busy..
