Re: the pictures I really don't think were for rishta !!
How long has it been since his mother passed away and he has been in Pakistan? He could still be busy with the mourning process and stuff where people are visiting his house, or has other things to take care of which are family oriented. I wouldn't contact him for now. Let him get back to you, but if you feel like his tone has shifted; it's probably best to let your feelings subside somewhat so you don't get hurt.
Ok heres the exact text!................. let me know what u think!
sorry dear I was out with family and am going bk to home. i am busy for next two days going out of city, dont ring me...when i am free i will ring you. sorry i couldnt attend your call.
Lol, once again, without the proper context, you made things sound a lot worse than they were. His text isn't bad at all. You need to be a bit more patient and not read into everything too much. Take a deep breath and calm down a bit. Really, it's not bad at all.
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^Agreed. Deep breaths. And patience.
Lol, once again, without the proper context, you made things sound a lot worse than they were. His text isn't bad at all. You need to be a bit more patient and not read into everything too much. Take a deep breath and calm down a bit. Really, it's not bad at all.
lol maybe I do read too much into things but as they say...a womens instuition is usually always right!! LOL your all gonna get fed up with me soon and start ignoring my posts! hahahah
It is coming up too 1 mnth since she passed away and yes I beleive family are still visiting...just strange as I have a phone card and he says " save some mins so u can call 2 morr" try calling and nothing...nothing possessive or nothing...only tried once yesterday and once 2 day
Re: the pictures I really don't think were for rishta !!
i think i read ur other thread in which u said he asked for the pictures of u, ur family ur house and car??? is it??
so u did give the pics to him... i also remember u writing that u two are not dating.
i think the family didnt like em coz when he asked for the pics it was even less than a month after the death in the family... was he not busy then?? not busy enough to ask for the pics..
weirdddddddddddd
Re: the pictures I really don't think were for rishta !!
ooh i just read ur first thread about the pictures. did he tell his family ur were not pakistani from origine? if u dont mind me asking are u a british girl?
if thats the case: that might be y he is acting in this manner because of his family i guess, or maybe there is nothign wrong at all and u should just wait.
ooh i just read ur first thread about the pictures. did he tell his family ur were not pakistani from origine? if u dont mind me asking are u a british girl? if thats the case: that might be y he is acting in this manner because of his family i guess, or maybe there is nothign wrong at all and u should just wait.
Yeah is a bit weird he had time for the pictures a week ago...I am thinking its something to do with the one month thing coming up ...not sure...he back sunday....yes I am a British girl....but he has said before that his family were liberal etc...and he could marry whoever he wanted...maybe he was just saying that though
i have put a pic on my profile...one which the family saw lol (i think)
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^haha funny pic...
1 month is SUPER short if its his mom!!! :o! i dont think his family has taken the time to think about it yet......... impossible it seems when ur mom just died less than a month ago.
Jus wait till he's bac, its good that ur not stalking him :D let him stalk u once he's bac ;)
and u know when he told u that his family is liberal that might be true, keep in mind thats liberal in 'pakistani' terms so that might be different than what liberal says in the oxford dictionary :)
lil confusion: is he in pakistan at the moment?
^haha funny pic... 1 month is SUPER short if its his mom!!! :o! i dont think his family has taken the time to think about it yet......... impossible it seems when ur mom just died less than a month ago. Jus wait till he's bac, its good that ur not stalking him :D let him stalk u once he's bac ;) and u know when he told u that his family is liberal that might be true, keep in mind thats liberal in 'pakistani' terms so that might be different than what liberal says in the oxford dictionary :)
lil confusion: is he in pakistan at the moment?
Lol!! glad u like the pic....flash was rather bright mind....just wanted to give u all a idea as to the kinda pics I sent...as some people thought I may have sent semi naked ones!!!!!!!!!!! lol HAHAHAHAHA
Yeah...he in Pakistan now...from what I understand...his mother has died and now his family kinda want all the childrens futures sorted out...but if the mother is no longer here but in heaven....who sorts out the marriages!! ? is it the sisters? or father? This is not related to me...just interested in general!
Nuh not gonna contact him now...wait for him...if I dont hear will just send a friendly text saturday to see if he wants picking from airport
Re: the pictures I really don't think were for rishta !!
We pakis have a hard time dealing with pakis and u being gori and all is in a mess now. As someone above said, let him stalk you, let him call you. And the picture u sent is not at all a rishta kind of picture, seriously, shud have sent a decent one lady! :)
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where is the picture 
Its her profile picture
Re: the pictures I really don't think were for rishta !!
sorry if u think im putting a damper on things but iv been reading all ur threads, and my opinion is maybe he is playing u.
have u ever thought that maybe his mother hasnt passed away?
maybe he went to pakistan to get married?
maybe he is making you believe that u are accepted by his family?
i have known some girls who got played like this a few years back. The guy she knew lied alot but she was blind, and eventually the truth came out that he got married and so on.
im just portraying a different view on things
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^cud be....
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He is not bold enough to say - sorry dear, but we cannot go along.
He is not bold enough to say - sorry dear, my family like you pics but they are not interested.
You are not bold enough to text him - abe bata toh sahi, kya socha hai toone.
If he still not reply - he is not good for you. Just dump him.
I mean be bold to express your views.
On the other hand, why dont you or your family members get in touch with his family. No harm i believe.
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may be he's getting married...
He is not bold enough to say - sorry dear, but we cannot go along. He is not bold enough to say - sorry dear, my family like you pics but they are not interested. You are not bold enough to text him - abe bata toh sahi, kya socha hai toone.
If he still not reply - he is not good for you. Just dump him.
I mean be bold to express your views.
On the other hand, why dont you or your family members get in touch with his family. No harm i believe.
good advice!
but not sure if catwomen understands 'abe bata toh sahi, kya socha hai toone' :D
Re: the pictures I really don't think were for rishta !!
Maybe he's just not that into you?
Drop him. he's not the only guy in the world, you know.
may be he's getting married...
LOL come on guys!!! his mother defo has died...he has put on his facebook...and had loads of condolances from friends etc.....who in their right mind would lie about their mother dieing??? THATS SICK!!!!!!!!!!
lol and the pic...I put the wrong one up...so that one didnt get sent! Thats on my facebook...but according to him the saw that 2....
why do u guys think he is playing me?