I have read numerous threads from women about their dream guys who they can’t be with. “The one who got away” or “the one who is already taken”. The solution. Why not be his second wife?
Lets be realistic, considering how much men in general are panned on this forum, the chances of finding another one of those “perfect” guys who fit the bill, are next to none. He is still the same guy you once considered “perfect”. And you womenfolk can’t wait forever for the next one to show up, the clock keeps ticking, and to be honest most women in their late 30s are not so pleasing to look at. So why not be his second wife? Your marriage will still be valid and will also conform to Islamic law.
A guy would DEFINITELY not be perfect for me if he is already married. We can try to work on engaged guys as there is still a chance with them ;). But married ones are forbidden fruits for me. Sorry to all the married ones :p Try elsewhere ;) but before that, learn self-defence techniques to save yourself from the abuse of your wife :p
dont you know...women are hella possessive...they dont like sharing their men...i dont understand that whole concept anyway.
He WONT be perfect or as desirable if he's to be shared...... :-/
it up to husband to maintain peace in the family and to protect everyone's rights, and to treat his wife humanly. cuz on the day of judgement it will be husbands neck on the line.
so if you can treat every wife equally, then by all means do 4 marriages (i am pretty sure many girls will happily accept)....but pakistani guys cant even keep peace between one wife and one mother let alone 4 wives and his one mother :p
