it up to husband to maintain peace in the family and to protect everyone's rights, and to treat his wife humanly. cuz on the day of judgement it will be husbands neck on the line.
so if you can treat every wife equally, then by all means do 4 marriages (i am pretty sure many girls will happily accept)....but pakistani guys cant even keep peace between one wife and one mother let alone 4 wives and his one mother :p
Oh I'll be fair if you know what I mean ;), the four can also share chores around the house.
but it's not like you can have a fivesome in bed at a time or somethin, now that would be interesting to see just how that would happen. it would take great skill on the part of everyone involved
I have read numerous threads from women about their dream guys who they can't be with. "The one who got away" or "the one who is already taken". The solution. Why not be his second wife?
Lets be realistic, considering how much men in general are panned on this forum, the chances of finding another one of those "perfect" guys who fit the bill, are next to none. He is still the same guy you once considered "perfect". And you womenfolk can't wait forever for the next one to show up, the clock keeps ticking, and to be honest most women in their late 30s are not so pleasing to look at. So why not be his second wife? Your marriage will still be valid and will also conform to Islamic law.
If the guy was so drooling over; he would have married the girl very first time. Not sure but maybe the girls got clingy which is why the guys ran OR the guys got ALL that they wanted from the relation & thus escaped!
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Get out, already! :halo: Out, Out …!!!