Your reply is actually what I was looking for! Its true there are quite a few half-halfs as you so put it.
Ive seen many families in the west that have the exact same mentality as the ones in Pakistan. Esp with the aunties! They just have farr too much time on their hands! lol
Another thing is when you travel over there they expect you to bring them something. However, when its their time they act so dumb-ified! “We didnt know what you liked, so we didnt bother!?” . . .