The only reason for marriage

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9 months into the marriage, reaction = bacha abhi tak kyun nahi hua???Have any of you like thought that it’s not the right time to have a baby yet and decided to have one after getting settled. Even if that meant having a baby after 2, 3 or 4 years.Or have you lot never thought about such things and tried for a baby straight away after marriage

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Hunny....how old are you?

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Yes of course, it's a common discussion and consensus is as follows: Any [desi] married couple must have a [male] child exactly 9 months, 2 days, and 13 hours after marriage. : )

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aor naa ho to handan ki har bhuddi aa kar sohar k kaan mein kahti hay.

Ainhoo doctor kol lay k jana sii.

Aap v turn jana si changi gal do-waa sidea-n to clear ho jaway.

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why not enjoy being married before having kids? I mean theres financial burden as well as looots and looots of sleepless tiring nights.
Wouldn't it be just nice if you could just have a nice time with your partner while it lasts? may it be 9mths or 2yrs or even 4.
As long as you two are happy. Whats the problem?

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hhahahahaaaha rotfl.

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just ignore them star4u.

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aisii ummeedeN yaa aisii maaNgeN jihaalat kii nishaanii aur uskaa suboot hai aur jihaalat insaan aur insaaniyat kaa sab se baRaa mobayyan dushman hai aur afsos k iskaa koii 'ilaaj nahiiN :(

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Do you have a subtitled version of yourself?

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I think you should enjoy married life for a while and then have children, they are hard work. I want to focus on my career for a while and then think about children, because I want to be in a best possible situation for my children if I was to be left alone to financially fend for myself. Oh, and mainly, when God wills you to have children, the timescale goes out of the window anyway......9 months may be 2 months, or even 4 years.

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we waited.

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hahahahahhaa. LOLOLOL

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That’s the most hilarious line i have ever heard @ GS.

So Joey-ish! :smiley: Me likez it!!! :biggthumb:

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Tell the people who ask you about babies to mind their own business. Do what is right for your family and if that is waiting, then there's no question. We waited 8 years and couldn't be happier with our decision.

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IMO couple should wait for at least 6 months or more to understand each other.. to have some good time together. It totally depends on couple when they feel comfortable and ready to have kids.

and logoon ka kia hai kehny do.... just ignore them. If someone says something. reply them "bas ji jo Allah ki marzi"

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Let's calculate that backward. ;)

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true! but u do sound infertile when u say 'bas ji jo Allah ki marzi'.........

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Let’s calculate that backward. :wink:
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Ugh this stupid app doesn’t have a like option.

:wink:

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Asain parents/in laws/general nosey interferring so and so's may comment on this, but at the end of the day, its your life, your marriage. I say get know each other, travel, and enjoy each others company, while you can! if anyone asks if your pregnant, smugly say maybe yes, maybe no. LOL

That will shut them up.

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No.. i don't think so..... its up to the person woh is k kia meanings nikalta hai ;) just smile and say it.