The ones that are divorced....any regrets?

[salaam2k14]

Re: The ones that are divorced…any regrets?

@sonder

Salaam2k14:I regret these things too. Sometimes I think I should have looked at those positives too. I do not have any kids. I wanted to have one as I was too lonely during my marriage but my X did not agree.
Sometimes I think it was a blessing and sometimes i feel it could have helped me with pain. I see people fighting over custody all the time.
there are nice guys out there who won’t mind marrying a women with child. Keep your faith in Allah and something amazing will turn out for you.

Along with the abuse, Controlling nature, My ex was a closeted gay so some of those positives were non-existent. It’s a sensitive topic but being a virgin b4 marriage, you hope you get those positives at least during marriage.if there was even one positive I would’ve stayed in.

I figured desi men were totally repulsed by sexual intercourse.

I won’t hope to meet someone. So I’ll leave it up to Allah. Thank you for you kind words.

You seem like you’re having doubts. Would you want go back to that marriage again since you said there were positives?