Re: The ones that are divorced…any regrets?
I had flaws that’s why I didn’t attempt to get a divorce in the beginning of the marriage. I felt like everything was my fault or there was something wrong with me and that’s why he didn’t care or respect me. The marriage was deadening but personal improvements, adjusting, compromising, and trying to strengthen the bond can’t be one-sided. It caused me to be a doormat for him. He was such a bully and controlling. It just drained every ounce of my being. I was like a ghost in that house, I had no say in anything and I couldn’t invite over people or have a normal, happy life. No birthday parties, family feasts, Eid celebrations, nothing. He controlled everything because he brought out so much fear in me. I was somebody that never believed in divorce. But now i see that some marriages especially the abusive ones need divorce for the sanity of a human being. There are some people that are just so without emotions, I didn’t think humans existed like that but I do now.
Not all men are like that.