.. i am looking at the new generation of girls and the way they are dressed.. and the way they prance around guys.. they are well aware of their bodies and the dirty eyes that are following them…
do they not have any sharam or hayaa? where are their parents? are they not seeing what their girls are upto?
teen girls.. in short short skirts and tight tops.. ok so if ur desi, u may replace the skirt with tight, low jeans..
i dont have a problem with girls looking good and being proud of what they look like.. we should all be happy with what we look like and have confidence… but what i dont agree with is young girls walking around with buttons purposely undone so their non-existent cleavage is viewable by peverted guys (and even the unperverted ones cant help but look)… pouting their lips.. walking in heels at cricket matches (like what?!)
whose at fault here? the parents or the demands of society?
these girls are attractive.. they are gorgeous! infact ive seen them as kids, growing up.. just beautiful girls mashallah… and then i duno what happens.. is it peer pressure? what is it that makes them advertise their bodies in such a manner?
its the peer pressure and parents fault for not spending proper time with their children
I have seen alot of cases like this here too.. where the parents are too restrictive and the beti actually does come to uni and then change her cloths and when going back she goes back to her "i am a good girl" kapray
parents need to pay extra attention to their children and talk to them not just daanto them or beat them..
The parents, the industry, the girls themselves the guys who look.
It s all connected.
I v seen girls coming to school wearing hijaab running to the ladies room changing clothes, (well its more like undressing) and then attending /skipping classes or going out.
I guess every generation has its flaws and errors.
Both can be blamed I guess. I mean both know (should know ?) how to behave, and not forget their rich heritage/culture.
Some people take the word: adapt to a whole new level.
Come to think of it, the parents should be blamed more since they didnt pass on what they received from their culture.
sometimez the parentz themselvez r that advanced or parentz who r educated think this is how the new genration is so we should let them be like that
i agree with dutch paki that parentz, peer pressure, the galz themselvez n the boyz r 2 blame. each gal is just brought up differently n some parentz just dont mind if there little galz show cleavge since itz "fashion"
yes its very sad. i have talked to several about myself not wearing revealing or tight clothing & they just look at me with a blank look on their faces.
yeah, that is the problem im finding with these girls… well ive seen the parents and i do know that they think cus they are educated, they can dress that way.. they think that being modern means u can walk around in short clothes, and its completely ok… they dont realise that their girls are not being admired.. but badmouthed.. i feel sorry for them..
i honestly do not know there they draw the line of being modern or liberal.. for me u can be modern, liberal and completely traditional at the same time… ur cleavage or the angles of ur body has nothing to do with it..
Maybe those girls don't wanna dress that way, society forces them to, I know they have their own right to do what they want, but thats how society works.
tell me bout it suroor... stuff i cant even think of doing now, bache are doing already... but that could just mean ive lead a very sheltered life... i dunno
It's everyone's fault; parents, society demands, inferiority complex, movies/tv/media, their own, sometimes Western influence (even girls in Pak do low stuff like that) etc etc. Showing off themselves and wanting all the attention of the opposite sex, this is too common in this world and it's everywhere. No culture or religion tells you to play such low acts and go to the limits of vulgarity it's just our dirty and pathetic brains. It's all inside our brains. We humans could die for attention and that's what all these girls need. There's no hijaab in anything in today's world. Nothing, really. And we're in bad need for that.
…i thought you would be the last person to be judging..