unless
unless you are butt ugly, Which we are not 
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mashaAllah
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disgusting!! shallow!
and the wives who say they dont care theyre very confident are only lying to themselves cuz they hv no other choice?
disgusting!! shallow!
and the wives who say they dont care theyre very confident are only lying to themselves cuz they hv no other choice?
finally we do agree on something :D
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if you think after marriage your spouse's personality will change, and start to revolve around you as the center of the universe, you are in for a lot of unhappy times/lies.
flirting is a broad term, and there is quite a bit of the spectrum that is harmless and fun. there is a lot that is creepy, and this is where being classy comes in. if you are married to someone who isn't a skank, why worry if he/she is himself/herself? learn to not be such control-freaks.
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my very liberal self agrees with queer.
That being said, if you think your spouse is in your opinion flirting or someone else is flirting with him/her, do express/communicate it in a mature way. You will find out that he/she either does not consider it flirting (meaning you two have very different standards of what flirting is) or will deny it, which means you have bigger issues to deal with.
My point is, don't suffer in silence but don't be a control-freak either.
*if you think after marriage your spouse's personality will change, and start to revolve around you as the center of the universe, you are in for a lot of unhappy times/lies. *
flirting is a broad term, and there is quite a bit of the spectrum that is harmless and fun. **there is a lot that is creepy, and this is where being classy comes in. if you are married to someone who isn't a skank, why worry if he/she is himself/herself? **learn to not be such control-freaks.
Seriously! Not everyone is so insecure about his/her relationship that he/she will jump down his/her significant other's throat over a bit of cheeky banter; if you don't mind flirting, then you don't mind flirting, so no point ramming your ideas down other people's throats when the matter is ultimately between the two people involved in the relationship.
Am I the only one reminded of Harry Potter from Potter Puppet Pals (@ 0:31 mark)?
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^ Omg! The mockery they make of Harry Potter 
:no:
Great, neh? 
PS: Check out the other vids, they’re much more funny.
I dont see what the big deal is, as long as the couple is okay with it, why should what an outsider says matter?
I personally dont find flirting itself as harmful to a relationship as much as if one partner were deliberately doing something that would be hurtful to the spouse (which can be pretty much anything). That shows more of a lack of respect and care for the person, than just flirting alone does.
But that’s just me. :k:
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interesting ... so what's considered flirting? only cheeking banter? what about sending e-mails, text messages, phone calls ... you know, all to 'chit chat'? of course, this is while you are married and perhaps your spouse isn't aware that you have a chummy friend on the side for cheeky banter?
I've seen 'flirting' like this .... or whatever you want to call it ... turns out pretty ugly. Not sure why the people involved feel guilty when they get 'caught' if it's all so innocent.
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Some people think having a dream about antoher person or checkign someone out is flat out cheating. To me that is extreme, but to antoher..it may not be.
I think its a personal definition that should be left up to the couple themselves.
but i think as a general rule...if a person wouldn't like it if it were done to them, then they should not do that thing...whatever it is.
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I think flirting is a real issue, you're married...you don't need to flirt with someone other than your spouse unless you're having problems with your self esteem. Even then, sort it out...don't go about looking for ways to gain it, in the sense that you look elsewhere.
There's a difference in being friends and flirting with your friends. If either of you had sense you'd nip it at the root and stop.
^ i dont know... they like taking risks?
So, do you take risks? :D
Two observations
Couples who get married in their teens or early twenties, it must be tough on them not to flirt.
Boys who like to flirt, they should think twice before saying 'I do'.
i find this so disturbing its making my stomach turn
*and this too.. how can it be safe?? *
what i wanna know is… what is even the point of flirting with someone other than ur spouse?? i mean, u can flirt with ur spouse all u want… and it can go from cutesty to sexy… isnt that more fun??
i find this so disturbing its making my stomach turn
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*and this too.. how can it be safe?? *
what i wanna know is... what is even the point of flirting with someone other than ur spouse?? i mean, u can flirt with ur spouse all u want... and it can go from cutesty to sexy... isnt that more fun??
"Variety is the spice of life" is the motto for some people.....in this regard.....lol.
It's also part of human nature to desire change. Not trying to justify it. Some people just have better control than others.
So, do you take risks? :D
not those kind
"Variety is the spice of life" is the motto for some people.....in this regard.....lol.
It's also part of human nature to desire change. Not trying to justify it. Some people just have better control than others.
than bring the change into ur marriage... why play with someone else??