Re: The moving out of the in-laws house conversation
It’s so cute people always run for answers in the world from other people like they’re perfect and living a perfect life.
Here’s what you should do my sister.
1- Whatever trouble you’re in reach to Allah not only this time but always.
2- What Islam has to say in this regard. Remember you’re going to be a mother one day and in the same situation. Just deal the situation you’d like yourself to be dealt with.
3- How sensitive the situation is if you take extreme measures.
4- How much you and your husband are on the same page.
5- How much of man your husband is when talking to his parents.
6- What’s the worst that could happen and how much you can afford it.
7- More people means more life, empty houses usually eco.
8- Grand parents usually come in handy raising children when both of the parents are working.
10- Sometimes wait/sabar/patience is the best option.
11- Never take away someone’s happiness just because you’re allowed in Islam.
12- Mutual grounds are always better for a family in the long run.