The Money of the Female

Muzna · June 30, 2015, 3:28pm

Re: The Money of the Female

I am not giving a spin to a good lesson. I am in no way saying its wrong but the money she earns is hers & husband has no right over it as man is the provider of the house, wife earning or no earning. Did you hear what Noman Ali Khan said towards the end of the video & why he bothered with that? These days it has become a norm for girls to work & its expected from them to contribute in the family no matter what hence they are forced sometimes to work even though they don’t want to just because they don’t want to get judged by the husband & society. If a men is earning enough to support a family then why he bothers/forces his wife to work? Just so he can have khairat & that too if she “chooses” to, thats not his decision to make let alone forcing her. If a girl choose to contribute financially, it’s not a sin for a girl but what it is for the guy?

Which man with a decent job & earnings take khairat these days & who would?

There is a reason why the word “charity” has been used, not right, not duty but the word “charity”.
So guys man up.

I see that your comments are directed at the group that “demand” that their wives contribute financially to the family income. Perhaps the negativity is valid there.

My concern is that by putting your sentiments in these words…

…you were suggesting that if a man “wants” his wife to contribute because he is unable to support his family then he is not deserving of respect.
I disagree with that.

There can come a time in a anyone’s life when they are unable to support their family due to unforeseen circumstances…an illness, an injury, loss of employment, etc. If a man comes to his wife and asks her to help out then there is no harm/sin/shame in that.