The Man's experience in Rishta Hunting

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Re: The Man’s experience in Rishta Hunting

@PyariCgudia

Most career driven desi women do not put blinders on and refuse men at all costs due to their careers. I certainly have not, I’ve had my eyes open since 20.

I think if a woman doesn’t want to settle for someone who will control her career and finances, then she is making an intelligent decision for her future. I don’t think she is looking to “fake”.

Believe it or not, many career women want a balanced life/career and are looking for someone who will work with them to build that equation. The fact that there are lots of older women on the market is not because they’re looking for excuses to not marry or they’re being unreasonable or nit picky, it’s because guys and their families do not want to work WITH the girl on building a real family, they just want someone they can order around and dominate. Otherwise what’s the big deal if your wife has a career, so what, that’s a good thing these days in fact.

Those women are NOT looking to fake. They just know what they want and aren’t willing to get into a marriage where they would actually have to FAKE being someone they’re not. Odd you’re talking about fakeness. It’s the girls who give up their ambitions to do their husbands bidding that are fake.

I’d rather do good with my life, stay single, and have my husband in heaven.

I talkd about making career or education so important that not married is false/fake.

Those women who settle after getting married are smart. Very smart.

They do not get bounced around like ping pong balls by different people.

Women who are in dating games keep getting exploited by different men. They keep getting rejected too.
And they come and tell others they rejected those men.

Ask working women: A lot of those women would just stay home if given the chance. Not very many women who get married wish to go other way.